There is no such thing as a quick fix. But this book is the closest thing I have ever seen. We have adopted children who have a range of difficulties. I bought this book on a whim, not expecting much. But it was amazing! We saw a huge amount of progress as soon as we did the Love Bombing weekend. It was hard to keep up the TopUps but well worth it. The children have continued to be much calmer and happier. We're now getting ready for our next love bombing weekend and I can honestly say that this has had a brilliant, and long term, effect on my children. I strongly recommend this book to any parent, especially those who are concerned about their relationship with their children.