I loved this book from the moment I picked it up. Touching, kind, sympathetic with lots of helpful constructive advice and no apportioning of blame. Mrs. Pantley builds your confidence in your parenting abilities and encourages your love and strong bond with your baby, she gently gives constructive suggestions that really do work in helping your baby and you sleep calmly and happily through the night. I strongly suggest that you buy this book if you passionately do not want to 'cry it out' and if you really don't see anything wrong with giving your baby what they want when they want it but at the same time really do want more sleep! This is a great book for those of us who are determined to continue breastfeeding.