Sorry Bellatori, I went in to edit my post and deleted!
I agree....bullying is a horrible trait.
I thought the conclusion that the girls came to really explained alot. The young men that I have met that claim to be Gay are greatly magnified, almost a charicature. Very over the top. It makes me wonder why. The older Gay friends I have had are much more low key, by that I don't mean "Hiding" I just mean men...if that makes sense.
The younger ones are more theatrical....not that there is anything wrong in that!