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Shrinking Violets: The Secret Life of Shyness Hardcover – 21 Feb. 2017

4.3 4.3 out of 5 stars 119 ratings

A deeply perceptive and beautifully written cultural history of shyness, from one of our most astute observers of the everyday

Shyness is a pervasive human trait: even most extroverts know what it is like to stand tongue-tied at the fringe of an unfamiliar group or flush with embarrassment at being the unwelcome center of attention. And yet the cultural history of shyness has remained largely unwritten--until now.

With incisiveness, passion, and humor, Joe Moran offers an eclectic and original exploration of what it means to be a "shrinking violet." Along the way, he provides a collective biography of shyness through portraits of such shy individuals as Charles Darwin, Charles Schulz, Glenn Gould, and Agatha Christie, among many others. In their stories often both heartbreaking and inspiring and through the myriad ways scientists and thinkers have tried to explain and "cure" shyness, Moran finds hope. To be shy, he decides, is not simply a burden; it is also a gift, a different way of seeing the world that can be both enriching and inspiring.

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"In a narrative that telescopes from antiquity to our own day, [Moran] touches on, among other things, horses and humming, illness and Italy, laughter, letter writing, and lighthouses. His encyclopedic sensibility recalls the expansive musings of Thomas Browne. . . . Mr. Moran argues that shyness can deepen perspective. . . . Ultimately he concludes that shyness, far from an aberration, might in fact be the most natural response to the riddle of existence."--Danny Heitman, Wall Street Journal

"Wonderful, . . . a sweeping work of history and anthropology and sociology. . . . Moran, in his book, has summoned insights from the ancients to their successors."--Megan Garber, Atlantic

"An absolute pleasure . . . so good at what it does that you finish wishing it were longer. . . . It's a trim and tidy 230-odd pages and I wish I could convey just what a quiet pleasure it is to read."--Alex Balk, The Awl

"A splendidly quirky book."--Robert Fulford, National Post (Canada)

"This remarkable compendium of shyness, vivid and insightful, provides both a history of diffidence and a compelling account of its cultural and psychological complexity. Whether discussing embarrassment, stammering, stage fright, or reticence, Moran considers the impact of shyness on creativity and its myriad contributions to fiction, art, and music. Beautifully written, appealingly candid, and thoroughly engaging, Shrinking Violets deserves a very wide readership."--Christopher Lane, author of Shyness: How Normal Behavior Became a Sickness

"Joe Moran has an eye for exploring realms of human existence that usually go unnoticed. Shrinking Violets is an intriguing, poignant, and passionate story about shyness in humans and animals. I was captivated from start to finish."--Joanna Bourke, author of What it Means to be Human

"This is a probing, surprising, and continually alert book about a feeling that is well-known--even when it doesn't want to be--yet almost never discussed. Moran, with beautifully shaped prose, ruminates on cultural attitudes to, and representations of, shyness. He is generous about his own shyness, and forensically alert to what being shy more generally means and what it doesn't. Shyness is just there, he concludes: loaded with potential interpretations but not defined by them. Examining a huge amount of cultural material--from sociological reports to popular music, from Virginia Woolf to Desert Island Discs--Moran is the razor-edge analyst of reticence, a virtuoso reader of those who hope to evade the eye."--Francis O'Gorman, author of Worrying: A Literary and Cultural History

"Joe Moran shines a light here on the phenomenon of shyness. . . . The author's lightness of touch belies some profound insights into human nature, from the strange science of blushing, to the inherent fragility of our social roles."--Laura Garmeson, Financial Times

"Joe Moran's excellent Shrinking Violets is an invitation to enter the strange and wonderful world of shyness, an emotion experienced by everyone from Charles Darwin to Japanese teenagers. Whether you're boldly outgoing or reticent and self-effacing, you'll find something to inspire, inform, or surprise in this thoughtful, beautifully written, and vividly detailed cultural history."--Susan Cain, best-selling author of Quiet and co-founder of Quiet Revolution

About the Author

Joe Moran is professor of English and cultural history at Liverpool John Moores University. His previous books include On Roads: A Hidden History, which was longlisted for the Samuel Johnson Prize.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Yale University Press (21 Feb. 2017)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 280 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0300222823
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0300222821
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 21.34 x 14.22 x 3.05 cm
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4.3 out of 5 stars
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 25 October 2018
I found this book a very positive encouragement, regarding shyness. The author goes into quite a lot of detail and cites many a famous person when referencing his points. It is quite academic, which I enjoyed (made his writing very credible) but some may find this style a little too formal. This is not an exhaustive review, by any means; I just wanted to mention how helpful I found this book, given how negatively shyness can be portrayed/viewed by the world at large. The author both celebrates and encourages those of a shy disposition to see the positives and be self-accepting. Very good.
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 17 April 2018
The book is backed by very good research and has lots of interesting stories and insights. One thing I didn't liked so much is that, as far as I've read, the book is very episodic, focusing on individual cases of (often famous) shy people instead of giving a general picture of the phenomena. Maybe by reading the whole book I will be able to form that picture myself, but I would like to see more reflection upon shyness in general, not only on particular cases. Anyhow, very good book that I am enjoying reading and learning with it.
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 31 December 2016
Being shy I'm not sure I can articulate how good this book is. It's a 5 star rating because I don't think I've read anything as human as this about shyness. And after therapy, meditation, exercise, yoga and ahem psychedlics I too have realised that changing my personality would probably be unrealistic and inauthentic .
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 30 July 2017
A superb book that allowed me to fit my thinking into an understandable and detailed explanation of shyness. Read it.
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 21 May 2019
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 24 October 2016
This isn't really a field guide to shyness, as it says on the cover - don't purchase it expecting a self-help book. It's a fairly academic but highly readable account of the history of shyness, taking in national traits, famous figures who suffered, etc. Moran offers insights into his own shyness and there's a fair amount of humour within the pages. If you've coped with shyness, you'll probably get a fair bit out of it, and enjoy doing so. Intellectuals may quibble over some of its aspects, but then that's what intellectuals do.
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 20 May 2018
Great
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 27 October 2017
A study of shyness that looks at issues such as the 'shy-bold' continuum in animal behaviour in evolutionary terms - and also and mostly at specifically human phenomena such as stage fright and stammering. The author is a confessedly shy person who finds it hard to fit into social contexts and looks at a variety of kinds of people, for example those on the autistic spectrum, who find that similarly difficult.

I found my of this book interesting but more because of the incidental detail than the central thesis. So I learned much about the life of L.S. Lowry and Janet Frame for instance and felt the author was quite a reliable guide to what he covered. It was also interesting to learn the film of the Kings Speech exaggerates the success of his therapy for stammering and how the film of Janet Frame's life gives us. Laiging therapist for her, which is not what she had in reality.

But I was left unconvinced that these subjects really fitted together as a single coherent whole. Asperger's syndrome doesn't seem to have much to do with the shy-bold continue in animals; or stage fright. Certainly the author doesn't really try to convince us of the connections.

So recommended only with reservations.
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RAFAEL LÓPEZ MONTES
5.0 out of 5 stars Historia social de la timidez.
Reviewed in Spain on 1 June 2021
No es un libro de auto-ayuda. Contiene datos nuy interesantes sobre muchos personajes famosos y cómo la timidez les coercionó, cómo la superaron o aprendieron a vivir con ella.
Paul Harbridge
5.0 out of 5 stars If you thought you were the only shy person in the world, read this book!
Reviewed in Canada on 1 March 2017
Joe Moran has written a wonderful book on what it means to be shy. He gives many examples of famous people in the arts and sciences and other walks of life who have been successful because of, and in spite, of being shy.
Yes he sees shyness as both a blessing and a curse. The author himself admits to being shy and perhaps that is why he is SUCH a good writer. The best flowing book I have read in a long time.
Thank you, Joe. Helps put my own lifelong struggle with shyness into perspective.
Highly recommended!
kcar
5.0 out of 5 stars Good book
Reviewed in the United States on 9 December 2016
I found this a fun book to read. It is full of anecdotes and historical tidbits. The author conflates shyness, social anxiety, depression, melancholy, etc. But why not? Are these separate and discrete or are they on a continuum or mixed up in a pudding? The book is a thoroughly enjoyable page-turner. The author has true command of language and writes elegant, accessible, flowing and coherent sentences, paragraphs, and chapters. It's a fun book even when Moran describes tragic characters. The point being that we're not alone; we're ok.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Four Stars
Reviewed in the United States on 31 August 2017
Excellent
Helen
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Reviewed in the United States on 2 April 2017
Very interesting book. I have been called shy all my life so its insights are applicable to me.