Top critical review
Actually, 5 stars and 1 star
14 October 2012
I wanted to rate this book at 5 stars because I connected on a deep level with what it had to say. In reading it, I gained a lot of insight into my situation and began to see that things didn't have to be the way they are. It was moving and could end up being one of the most important books I've ever read! From this point of view I would recommend this book to anyone in a relationship.
However, I also want to rate it 1 star because at the end I was left a bit high and dry. I was looking for some next steps but it seems that without a spare few hundred quid for counselling or one of their (great sounding) courses, there was nowhere to go, not even another book to buy. I could have done with a few practical pointers as to where to begin the process under my (our) own steam. I understand that every couple is different, but surely some general guidance is possible for those of us without a great deal of spare cash. I would still recommend this book to anyone, though.