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Plays Well with Others: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Relationships Is (Mostly) Wrong Audible Audiobook – Unabridged

4.6 out of 5 stars 944 ratings

From the author of the Wall Street Journal bestseller Barking Up the Wrong Tree comes a cure-all for our increasing emotional distance and loneliness—a smart, surprising, and thoroughly entertaining guide to help build better friendships, reignite love, and get closer to others, whether you’re an extrovert or introvert, socially adept or socially anxious.

Can you judge a book by its cover?

Is a friend in need truly a friend indeed?

Does love conquer all?

Is no man an island?

In Plays Well With Others, Eric Barker dives into these questions, drawing on science to reveal the truth beyond the conventional wisdom about human relationships. Combining his compelling storytelling and humor, Barker explains what hostage negotiation techniques and marital arguments have in common, how an expert con-man lied his way into a twenty-year professional soccer career, and why those holding views diametrically opposed to our own actually have the potential to become our closest, most trusted friends.

Leveraging the best evidence available—free of platitudes or magical thinking—Barker analyzes multiple sides of an issue before rendering his verdict. What he’s uncovered is surprising, counterintuitive, and timely—and will change the way you interact in the world and with those around you just when you need it most.

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Product details

Listening Length 6 hours and 55 minutes
Author Eric Barker
Narrator Roger Wayne
Whispersync for Voice Ready
Audible.co.uk Release Date 10 May 2022
Publisher HarperAudio
Program Type Audiobook
Version Unabridged
Language English
ASIN B09CW361MP
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4.6 out of 5 stars
944 global ratings

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Customers find the book engaging and easy to read, with one mentioning it's hard to put down. The book provides valuable insights into human behavior, with one customer noting it's beautifully backed up by multiple research studies.

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Customers find the book readable, with one mentioning it was hard to put down.

"Really enjoyed this book. It is a must read who has to deal with people... and who does not?" Read more

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Customers find the book insightful, with one review noting it is beautifully backed up by many different research studies.

"If you liked the first one, don't hesitate to buy this too. Wisdom and wit combined to bring valuable insights into human behaviour." Read more

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  • sasirat
    5.0 out of 5 stars Cracking read
    Reviewed in Australia on 8 August 2024
    Well worth your time, plenty of applicable advice
  • Deborah
    5.0 out of 5 stars A book everyone should read!
    Reviewed in Canada on 13 February 2023
    Format: HardcoverVerified Purchase
    This is a book that everyone will find something relatable inside. There were so many chapters that I would think well, that's not me, but surprise surprise, there would be a gem in there too! Easy to read and thought provoking, and very easy to recommend!
  • Kendall Holmstrom
    5.0 out of 5 stars Best book of 2022
    Reviewed in the United States on 3 March 2023
    Format: HardcoverVerified Purchase
    I got this book for a leadership course, and after reading it, it has become one of my favorite books. Knowing it was written in 2022 post-pandemic. It gives a lot of really excellent advice and current evidence that a lot of books don’t have.

    I got this book for a leadership course and after reading it, it has become one of my favorite books. Knowing it was written in 2022 post pandemic.

    It gives a lot of really amazing advice, and current evidence that a lot of books don’t have, I was enthralled with barkers, storytelling and use of evidence seamlessly in an innovative and playful way. I would 100% recommend this to others as it’s a fun read with a lot of great information. 😁🐾💕
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    Kendall Holmstrom
    5.0 out of 5 stars
    Best book of 2022

    Reviewed in the United States on 3 March 2023
    I got this book for a leadership course, and after reading it, it has become one of my favorite books. Knowing it was written in 2022 post-pandemic. It gives a lot of really excellent advice and current evidence that a lot of books don’t have.

    I got this book for a leadership course and after reading it, it has become one of my favorite books. Knowing it was written in 2022 post pandemic.

    It gives a lot of really amazing advice, and current evidence that a lot of books don’t have, I was enthralled with barkers, storytelling and use of evidence seamlessly in an innovative and playful way. I would 100% recommend this to others as it’s a fun read with a lot of great information. 😁🐾💕
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  • Sarah Hague
    5.0 out of 5 stars Informative, interesting and fun to read
    Reviewed in France on 23 July 2022
    Format: HardcoverVerified Purchase
    This is definitely a book for the modern age, an era of individualism, depression and loneliness. It's not me saying that, it's been shown extensively by research. Eric Barker, whose blog I greatly enjoy, took advantage of the pandemic to get his teeth into the subject of relationships and their importance in our lives.
    He writes engagingly using stories about real people in real situations, and humour to illustrate the science. It's a fascinating read examining friendship, love, community, appearances and the answer to the meaning of life. No spoiler alerts here...!
    It's thoroughly researched - check out the 45 pages of references at the end, excellently written and a jolly good read.
  • Rogier
    5.0 out of 5 stars Heerlijk om te lezen
    Reviewed in the Netherlands on 6 August 2022
    Format: HardcoverVerified Purchase
    En zo ontzettend leerzaam. Goed voor iedereen om eens te lezen. Humor en zeer goed onderbouwd. En een waarheid als een koe!
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