- Paperback: 304 pages
- Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing PLC (3 July 2006)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0747578176
- ISBN-13: 978-0747578178
- Product Dimensions: 2.4 x 15.3 x 23.3 cm
- Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars See all reviews (133 customer reviews)
- Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 973,971 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You Paperback – 3 Jul 2006
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'It addresses this problem with sensitivity, depth and intelligence, with advice on how to recreate intimacy while retaining a sense of self. Marshall firmly believes that falling out of love does not mean the end of a relationship. His insightful advice makes it hard to disagree' Psychologies Magazine --This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition.
Falling out of love does not have to mean the end of your relationship - Andrew G. Marshall shows you why not.
Updated tenth anniversary edition of the book that has sold more than 100,000 copies in sixteen languages worldwide, including a new preface.--This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition. See all Product Description
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Top Customer Reviews
I am one of those people who sees a problem and wants to fix it no matter what. If there is a leaky pipe in the house I will buy a plumbing manual and learn all I can about plumbing then tackle the issue.
I done the same when my marriage fell apart, we had been together 10 years, married for 4 and it was just after our 10 year anniversary when things started going wrong.
She didn't so much tell me she was no longer in love with me but thats what it came down to. We talked for hours, argued and she left for a while.
I then picked up this book and read through it, I laughed a lot us fall into the same traps as so many others, doing the same things, coming to the same conclusions.
I then had a real good sit down chat with my wife and with the help of this book we came to the conclussion that we were no good married, it was not going to work but we still had a fantastic relationship, 10 years of memories and we have been through hell and back.
With the help of this book and a little councilling we have remained friends and are working towards staying friends.
In saying that this is not a magic wand and things need to be worked on. Ego needs to be put aside and a lot of things need to be worked on.
Only time will tell but I am still glad I bought this book.
Will it save your marriage?
Will it save your relationship?
there are no gaurantees to life, no absolutles. Just try.
I purchased this book and also another book, in case this one didn't work - a 'get over your breakup book'...
I started reading 'I love you but I'm not in love with you', which is explained in such a way that didn't make me sad, confused - or blame myself. It was just the facts - people fall in love and then when they start to get to know their partners 'real' self (cos we all act on our best behavior in the beginning) we get on each others nerves and the old "grass is greener syndrome" kicks in... Friction begins and turns into arguements that go from "you didn't put the bin out!" into "You A-hole!" And who'd want to stay in THAT kind of negative relationship? Separate beds/bedrooms... No intimacy and nothing but hurt emotions in the air, like a thick foggy layer of denseness... Because if you are 'cured' of your afflictions - you will think that your falling out was a bit, well, dense!
You may think its all over... That there is no where to go but to split up... But DO NOT GIVE UP! TRY THIS BOOK! If you still butt heads and none of the exercises worked for you then there is a chapter at the back of the book 'if the worst comes to the worst'. But hopefully it won't!
It worked for me and my boyfriend (yes the amazing thing is... we fell back in love!) After everything bad that'd happened, and it had been bad for approx 2 years... we discovered 'limerence' again, only this time it is so much better because we know each other for REAL! Our best and worst parts accepted and loved anyway.Read more ›
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I didnt even buy this book but its ended up on my orders and i have paid money and there is nothing were i can get intouch with someone about it especially when no one else buys on... Read morePublished 1 month ago by nicola
This book has given me the hope and tools I need to try and rekindle the love with my husband.Published 2 months ago by Louise Mclaren
This book has really helped me understand how to work out how to revive a long term relationship. The advice makes sense and the analysis of the various situations is very... Read morePublished 3 months ago by Balibou
it has helped me understand my husband and work with him towards fixing our marriage. still a long way to go but very helpfulPublished 3 months ago by g
Interesting read although Love is a decision and not always based on a feelingPublished 5 months ago by Orv Tee
Recommended to friends many times, saved my marriage and has helped me understand how we relate to those we love.Published 5 months ago by IanSB