- Paperback: 338 pages
- Publisher: Harper Element; 1st edition edition (16 Jan. 2014)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0722538073
- ISBN-13: 978-0722538074
- Product Dimensions: 13 x 2.3 x 19.7 cm
- Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars See all reviews (168 customer reviews)
- Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 3,864 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks For Big Success In Relationships Paperback – 16 Jan 2014
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Praise for Leil Lowndes:
‘Leil is the best. Absolutely the best!’ Sally Jessy Raphael
Praise for How To Talk To Anyone:
‘Does what is says on the tin, with heaps of helpful tips for developing ease in social situations.’ Time Out
‘Your ability to communicate with power and impact can change your life – and Leil shows you HOW! Truly extraordinary.’ Brian Tracy
From the Publisher
By the bestselling author of How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You). This book is written in the same hilarious style with its 92 simple and effective techniques.See all Product Description
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Top Customer Reviews
I found this book interesting; I've tried many of the techniques and found that they work very well.
Unfortunately, the author has little genuine warmth, empathy or interest in other people.
One example (not untypical). The authors 'good friend' had started a business and Leil (the author) introduced her to an important - powerful - contact. The author's friend 'messed up' when she contacted the 'important person' - she didn't have a pen and asked him to wait a few minutes whilst she got one. The author's reaction 'that's the last time I'll introduce her to anyone'. Jeez - I'm glad she's not my 'good friend'.
I thoroughly recommend it to anybody who wants to communicate more effectively i.e. get what they want out of other people - respect, friendship, business, a job, etc.
However don't let it turn you into a self-centered, manipulative, jerk.
Remember that communications techniques can help in one off relationships (e.g. a job interview, sales call), can help lubricate new relationships (a first date), and increase your social standing (working a party, or social engagement).
They can't help in long-term relationships (when a date becomes your girl/guy, on the job, parenting, etc.) For that you need to invest in your character.
One section I read was when the author was hired to teach a trade association "scintillating conversation" as the keynote speaker on networking. She meets the head of the association, a Mrs Devlin, and begins with the usual "where are you from?" and "what do you do?". Well Mrs Devlin says she's from Columbus, Ohio and the conversation comes to a halt. The author has no further conversation, she's stumped and cannot think of anything to say to continue the conversation or to move it forward or somehow divert it from imminent disaster. She then goes on to advise her readers that we should provide additional information about our hometown so that the other person has something to latch on to in order to continue the conversation. However, the author does not teach us how to deal with this particular situation. She does not teach you how to talk to anyone! I read on looking for her resolution to this predicament, preparing myself for what must have been exotically inspirational and completely out of this world. Something which sets this author, top conversationalist and networking guru to the lofty heights which she obviously deserves...but nothing, not a thing. It's like she whimpered off and later gave her speech, took the money and ran for her life.
She later goes on to research Columbus, Ohio and talk about all the facts she has learned.Read more ›
A lot of the stuff is common sense, but it is useful to have it confirmed so that the ideas are in the forefront of your mind when you are next socially climbing. (If thats what you want to do!!). However this is really a book for those that already have quite competent social skills and are socially confident. It is also rather aimed at the American personality.
It is easy and enjoyable to read and reeks of optimism.
But it is not a lesson in the basic skills for those that are shy to talk to others, it is more about the fine-tuning of existing communication skills.
Perhaps these techniques would seem obvious and second nature to people who are already good at socialising (good for them), but if you are one of the shy, tongue-tied people like me, then this book is worth 100 times its price, if only for spelling out what these 'obvious' techniques are. Thank you Leil !
Now I feel much more confident when I approach people that I will be able to hold my own in the conversation department.
In this book Leil Lowndes gives advise about some of the following topics;
1) How to give a positive impression when you first meet someone using body language
2) What to say after saying hello
3) How, by doing a little homework before a social or business meeting you can sound like an 'insider', rather than an outsider.
I recommend this book to everybody. It is refreshing to read a book on communications that really elaborates and gets down to the nitty gritty of what the author is trying to say. This book is thick, and their are 92 tricks for relationship success in any situation, and so you can see that it is very substantial.
Read this book to be comfortable in any situation where you have to talk to others, new aquaintances and old friends alike.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
This is a superb book, short, readable and very practical. The book is split into several sections and each has a description and a ‘How to’. Read morePublished 2 months ago by KPE Wales
it' definintely not "how to win friends and influence people" which is a much better book if you're interested in the subject of talking to peoplePublished 4 months ago by Amazon Customer
Amazing book,great tips about how to talk to people. now all i need todo is try and apply themPublished 4 months ago by Amazon Customer
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