"Godchicks and the Men They Love" is a great book for those who are not yet married, as well as those who are married and looking to build a lasting loving marriage. It is written by both Philip and Holly, so there are definitely some gems of knowledge for both men and women. Plus for those men that don't like to read all the fluffy stuff that us girls appreciate, there is a summarised section "just for men", no longer than a page after each chapter. I would recommend this book to any woman/girl/lady who is trying to figure out what it is that she is looking for in a relationship. For those already married, it helps you to become a better wife. I would also recommend this book to any guy who wants to become a better husband ... and to figure out where most chicks come from, because let's face it, men and women are just different.