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FEMDOM: How To Handle Disobedience: For Dominant Women ('How To' Femdom Guides Book 4) Kindle Edition

by Sharyn Ferns (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
4.3 out of 5 stars 60 ratings
“My submissive won’t do what I want!”

This is a common complaint, especially for new dominant women. You aren't alone.

Whether your submissive forgets to do things you've asked of them, or doesn't complete tasks you set, or thinks it’s fun to disobey, or outright says 'no' when you ask something of them, this guide is for you.

As a new Domme, disobedience can shake your confidence and leave you struggling because you just aren't sure what to do. Maybe you’ve tried a bunch of tactics to get your dynamic back on track, but it hasn’t worked out as you’d hoped.

This short, sharp, practical 'How To' femdom guide is for you.

Discover how you can build a dynamic that makes your submissive fall over themselves to obey you, and learn some clear, simple steps to handle it if they don’t.

This guide describes 5 practical steps (SLAPS*) that will help you handle your submissive’s disobedience, develop your confidence in dealing with issues in the dynamic, and strengthen your relationship in the process.

*This guide contains no actual slaps!

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  1. Book 4 of 4
    'How To' Femdom Guides
  2. Print length
    147 pages
  3. Language
    English
  4. Accessibility
    Learn more
  5. Publication date
    8 Dec. 2019
  6. File size
    4.0 MB
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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B082HJWK52
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Ferns Publishing
  • Accessibility ‏ : ‎ Learn more
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ 8 Dec. 2019
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 4.0 MB
  • Simultaneous device usage ‏ : ‎ Unlimited
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 147 pages
  • Page Flip ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Book 4 of 4 ‏ : ‎ 'How To' Femdom Guides
  • Best Sellers Rank: 727,073 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
  • Customer reviews:
    4.3 out of 5 stars 60 ratings

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Sharyn Ferns

Sharyn Ferns

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Sharyn Ferns is an Australian author, dominant, top femdom sex blogger, beach dweller, and avid reader. Passionate about what she does, her books are truth-driven, fierce, and original.

Join her mailing list: https://www.domme-chronicles.com/link/mailing-list

She is lucky enough to live at the beach where she listens to the surf while she writes. She says it really is just as idyllic as it sounds.

Her books about female dominance and male submission focus on passion-led happy femdom relationships full of love and affection and incredible hotness. She shares people's joyful stories in her 'Happy Femdom' books, she helps newbies with her 'How To' femdom series, and she also writes scorching-hot femdom erotica in her Domme Chronicles book.

You can learn more than you ever wanted to know about her on her Domme Chronicles blog (https://www.domme-chronicles.com) where you will also find links to her other social media accounts and her podcast where she obsessively over-shares.

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4.3 out of 5 stars
60 global ratings

Top reviews from United Kingdom

  • Matt F
    4.0 out of 5 stars Ok
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 30 May 2024
    Format: PaperbackVerified Purchase
    But a bit wishy washy for me. Cover is misleading
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  • Everly
    4.0 out of 5 stars Decent book for baby Dommes.
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 5 November 2020
    Format: Kindle EditionVerified Purchase
    I enjoy reading about these topics to learn more about my craft and engage with others' perspectives. I was excited to check something like this out.

    It's a quick read with some good tips and practical explorations. As someone with a background in psychology, I appreciated some of the themes it touched on, but didn't find them to be new concepts for myself. They probably would be for others, though.

    I would say this would be a great read for someone with a bit of an intermediate skill set, who has gotten started in some ways with research but could use more advice putting things into action. It's always hard to write a book like this because the best way to learn is by doing, but doing without first researching is irresponsible. I think this strikes a good balance.
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  • JR
    5.0 out of 5 stars I need a Vanilla Version of the advice in this book!
    Reviewed in the United States on 10 September 2022
    Format: PaperbackVerified Purchase
    My initial thought while reading the book was "I need the vanilla version of this book, because I need to be using these communication concepts in my day job. And saying I learned it from a 'how to' Femdom book would probably be a bad idea." The author does a great job of communicating the most important concept, which is "the submissive has to want to fix this." In my day job, I've lost a lot of energy and time trying to get others to want to fix things that they did not want to fix. And, understanding this concept might have saved me a lot of lost sleep and frustration. I appreciate the author taking the time to put this book together and I look forward to applying these ideas to all my relationships. Femdom or otherwise. And, I look forward to gaining some of the self awareness the author appropriately recognizes can sometimes be absent in people, and especially a submissive trying to get more attention from a Dom.
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  • Miss Pearl
    5.0 out of 5 stars A rare gem
    Reviewed in Canada on 28 September 2020
    Format: Kindle EditionVerified Purchase
    In a sea of man pleasing femdom manuals, long term scene regular, lifestyle domme and mentor to thousands of people, Ferns, creates a rare thing, a manual for dominant women that assumes you actually want to do this for you.

    With practical, down to earth tips, this book is no porn disguised as a how to, it's about the common mistakes in the conversation about getting what you want and how to make your boundaries firm and understood.

    Pithy, witty and charming, Ferns offers options I would have given my right arm to have had as a baby domme.
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  • Chris
    5.0 out of 5 stars I FELL IN LOVE WITH THIS BOOK
    Reviewed in the United States on 12 December 2019
    Format: Kindle EditionVerified Purchase
    The first thing that stood out to me is the book’s excellent structure, context, and graphics. The structure provides a smooth and easy to follow process beginning with the types of disobedience and includes building on the foundation of the relationship, all the way through to follow-up after resolving the disobedience. The reason this book is unique from other books is Ferns didn’t just address how to resolve a submissive’s resistance to a Dominant’s instruction, but she peels back each layer like an onion to examine the core of the issue and then shows how to rebuild it. I love the book’s emphasis on building and repairing the foundation of the relationship and the follow-through after the issue is resolved.
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  • Melanie
    1.0 out of 5 stars Boring 😴
    Reviewed in the United States on 27 January 2024
    Format: PaperbackVerified Purchase
    I couldn't get through the first chapter it was so boring and drawn out. Felt like reading one of those click bait articles. Won't be reading the rest of the collection.
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