Amongst Women Paperback – 5 Jun 2008
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'An overwhelming experience.' (The Times)
'A book that can be read in two hours, but will linger in the mind for decades.' (Sunday Telegraph)
'Compact but not dense, spare yet rich, and brimming with tension.' (Observer)
McGahern brings us that tonic gift of the best fiction, the sense of truth... a sight that cleanses us even as it saddens and frightens. (John Updike) --This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition.
Amongst Women by John McGahern is a poignant and clear-sighted novel from the highly acclaimed Irish novelist.See all Product Description
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It also shows how choosing not to love - the bitterness that can come from the slights, betrayals and humiliations that make up the retinue of human existence - is not a natural state, and that the grace to overcome it is always available.
The deep satisfactions of this book derive from the exquisite skill of the author. His voice is gentle, yet his eye is merciless. He has deep understanding of the forces that bind men and women, and keep them apart. The most powerful after-effect of reading it, is to feel his own love, or at least his compassion, although it is never explicit. It is conveyed as if across a space. The distance is necessary so we don't lose focus, so the clarity of the picture does not blur. What we see - eventually, in the authors good time - is how we must be part of this story too.
It is a short book, but no work of fiction published since it was published twelve years ago carries more weight.
It's not an 'easy' story though: a former Irish war hero, Moran, lives in the Irish countryside with his four teenage children (one boy and three girls, the oldest son Luke moved away to London after a personal conflict with his father) and Rose, his second wife. We follow the life of the family: how Moran lives alone with the children, gets to know Rose and marries her, the often difficult relation with his children: his second son follows his brother's example and migrates to London. This book is a character sketch of a stubborn, dominant, but also loving father. At first sight, not the type of book where the reader easily identifies with one of the characters. Nevertheless, in a subtle way the story draws you into the life of this traditional catholic family. The underlying theme is universal: intergenerational troubles and difficult inter-human relations. Some things never change, no matter the time period or location.
The book is very well written. Despite the setting being extremely `uncool' in its setting (key words: rural, traditional, poor, hard-working...), I never lost interest in learning more about the characters and the dynamics of their relations. The book succeeds very well in describing the remote life on the farm with Moran dominating the other family members' lives. It creates an almost claustrophobic atmosphere. As a reader you understand why also Moran's second son runs away. The women - including Rose - react differently: equally irritated at times, but never questioning his authority and remaining loyal.Read more ›
Within his own household, Michael upholds all the values he fought for years ago. He's a hard, independent man, beholden to no one, and his word is law. To his family, however, he is often a tyrant--obstinate, cruel, full of hatred, quick to anger, and reluctant to apologize-and his second wife Rose, his three daughters, and his two sons are "inordinately grateful for the slightest good will." Outwardly religious, Michael daily recites the Rosary, looking for religious help for his inner turmoil and the complications of his daily life. As he says, "the war was the best part of our lives. Things were never so simple and clear again."
With a main character who is never endearing, McGahern challenges the reader to empathize with Michael and understand why the women in his family remain tied to him emotionally, even after they have successfully escaped his domination and established independent lives away from the farm. Gradually, the reader begins to understand the overpowering need to form connections with the past, even when it is not pleasant--to forgive one's parents for their limitations while remaining strong and faithful to oneself. In clear, straightforward prose of immense power, McGahern piles mundane detail upon detail, creating a sensitive family story of great universality, one which will give the reader much to ponder. Mary Whipple
Although this is one of those tales in which not much happens, I was soon hooked by McGahern's spare prose and subtle ability to convey a sense of place and of human relationships as he describes in minute detail the nuances of family relationships in the rural Ireland of around 1960. On the one hand, I was repelled by the narrow restrictions, the over-concern with convention and religious rituals. On the other, McGahern makes us aware of the value of family ties, working together on the land, taking pleasure in the small simple things of life, enjoying the familiarity and beauty of the farmland. All this is made more poignant by our knowledge of the transience of this way of life, as inevitably the children leave to make a better living in Dublin or London - or to escape the tyranny of a man whom most of them regards as "always.... the very living centre of all parts of their lives".
Moran's bullying, sarcasm and desire to stand on his dignity and have the last word do not endear him to me. Much of the quiet tragedy of this book is the high price he pays for his behaviour in terms of the loss of his old friend McQuaid, even his eldest son. It is quite hard at times to understand how his stoical wife Rose manages to turn the other cheek.
Highly recommended, this is a thought-provoking and moving read which enhances our understanding of ordinary life, with a wry humour to counter what may sound like the downbeat misery of the theme.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
Unfortunately did not live upto expectations thought it would be a page turner found it slowPublished 3 months ago by katie ireland
This novel is reasonably short and takes place in rural Ireland; focusing on the life of Michael Moran, his second wife Rosie and their four children. Read morePublished 5 months ago by Aaronj59
A gentle unfolding of a family's attitudes to religion, gender roles, familial responsibility and freedom to change. Beautifully crafted and honest.Published 6 months ago by Amazon Customer
This myopic view of a farming family and their dynamics, is wooden and claustrophobic. The demise of the father after decades of suppressing his family is almost a relief. Read morePublished 7 months ago by mediamagic
Wonderful powerful novel. Great characters and depiction of Irish life. Loved every moment of it...Published 7 months ago by J. J. Barrett
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This is a powerful, absorbing novel written in spare, precise prose, the author occasionally coming up with a phrase that stops... Read more