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I Am AspienGirl: The Unique Characteristics, Traits and Gifts of Females on the Autism Spectrum Paperback – 12 Jun. 2014

4.1 4.1 out of 5 stars 227 ratings

Have you ever wondered why she says she feels different to her peers? Wondered why life seems challenging for her? Her peers seem to gracefully and naturally meet their milestones, yet she has reached some developmental milestones early and some late. She may have spoken and read early, asking an endless array of questions. Maybe at age four she was teaching herself to read as you drove down the road by reading street signs. She may have been an overly active child, had sensory issues, or had a speech delay. You knew she was bright from early on, with a sprinkle of some anxiety, social and eating issues, yet the professionals just cannot find an explanation that completely fits her. She may be very artistic, whether she sings, draws, paints, or writes, at times, too mature for her age. Yet, she struggles socially and emotionally, acting and appearing younger than her peers. She may be ten years old now, yet none of your research completely fits her or maybe you have just now come across some information on females that completely makes sense to you. Maybe she is "Aspien", a young female with Asperger Syndrome or High-Functioning Autism. She has a unique constellation of super-abilities, strengths and challenges. She may feel or say that she is from another Planet, Planet Aspien®. If you are looking for a book on the often perplexing and unique female Autism Spectrum traits, then this is the book for you. Watch for "I am AspienWoman", coming soon.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Lightning Source Inc (12 Jun. 2014)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 157 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0992360900
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0992360900
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 21.72 x 0.76 x 21.72 cm
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Customers find the book provides interesting and useful information about their daughters. They appreciate the beautiful pictures and positive quotes from parents. The book is described as easy to read and understand, with a simple yet well-written style.

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Customers find the book informative and useful. They say it helps them understand their daughters better, identifies traits, and understand others' feelings. The book provides a comprehensive overview of the topic and includes thought-provoking quotes and pictures.

"...I think this book will help parents to understand their Aspie daughters a little better...." Read more

"...this is a beautifully put together arty and wonderfully creative presentation of Asperger's in girls. As a Dyslexic I LOVE it!..." Read more

"...She found it reassuring and it prompted some good discussion with us as parents to help us understand her better." Read more

"...and talents which other AspienGirls experience, and helps the reader to understand the feelings of everyone involved!..." Read more

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Customers like the picture quality and positive tone of the book. They find it a picture book with a few quotes per page from parents.

"...I'm a visual person and love the beautiful photographs which accompany the quotes...." Read more

"...of rejection gives us HOPE where there is none... it is a beautiful uplifting & positive book." Read more

"The book is written in a succinct, positive style...." Read more

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Customers find the book easy to read and understand. They say it's well-written and accessible.

"...spread positive awareness about Aspergers in girls in a way that's easy to read. Well done, Tania, I'm eagerly awaiting Aspienwoman!" Read more

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"...I also bought I Am An Aspie Girl by Danuta Bulhak-Paterson. This is simple and aimed at your daughter...." Read more

"Well written, accessible work that is truly enlightening. Every school and clinic should utilise this information. Looking forward to reading more." Read more

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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 3 January 2015
    Having been through the autistic diagnosis process with my five year old son last year, it occurred to me that my own lifelong problems (huge list) may also be due to autism. I saw I Am Aspiengirl advertised via Tania's website and bought it to see if it made sense in relation to my own childhood, which it does. For people who suspect they may be autistic, this book might provide some answers.
    I'm a visual person and love the beautiful photographs which accompany the quotes. The appendixes are helpful and informative and highlight the gender differences.
    I think this book will help parents to understand their Aspie daughters a little better. If my mother was still alive, I'm sure she'd recognize her "away with the fairies" little girl and misfit teenager in those pages for sure. I elbowed my other half umpteen times when I read it, followed by an "Oh my God, that was me!" It was a revelation. I cried a bit.
    I have to agree with a few other reviews that the book is a little on the flimsy side. That said, it deserves every one of it's five stars for it's content which aims to spread positive awareness about Aspergers in girls in a way that's easy to read.
    Well done, Tania, I'm eagerly awaiting Aspienwoman!
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 16 December 2014
    Absolutely SUPERB! Yes the paper quality is POOR but this is a beautifully put together arty and wonderfully creative presentation of Asperger's in girls. As a Dyslexic I LOVE it! I don't know what my 24 yr old daughter will think of it but will add her review later. I already told her I bought her what I see as a perfect Dyslexic's visual guide to Asperger's - and it will probably drive her nuts but is put in a way I can relate to. Our kids are beautiful, powerful vibrant amazing people - so this is not a patronising message! It is a beautiful message. See BEAUTY in our Asperger girls in a world of rejection gives us HOPE where there is none... it is a beautiful uplifting & positive book.
  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 20 July 2016
    Daughter found it useful to help her identify traits. She found it reassuring and it prompted some good discussion with us as parents to help us understand her better.
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 8 April 2015
    I am 33 and an aspergers 'diagnosis' (Its not an illness so diagnosis seems the wrong word) makes sense of my childhood in ways that nothing else has. Kind of gives me a sense of peace to know that I'm not actually that weird, and that my difficulty fitting in and always feeling slightly like an alien (Though on the surface I could fake it. I eventually was forced by life to learn to listen to my instinct and feelings which led me to people I feel much more at home with anyway, or horses and dogs or people who seem to carry a similar expression of aspergers to me, who I can genuinely feel at home with) wasn't my fault, its just that my brain is wired differently, and that it isn't a disorder, its just not the way the majority are. I just really wish there was something as positive for boys and men on the spectrum to read, rather than just the diagnostic medical problem based analysis that seems to be everywhere on the internet. I'm keen on reading her book for adult women, Aspien Woman, which I don't think has come out yet.
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 26 January 2019
    I bought the Kindle edition, so I can't comment on paper quality or book size, but it was mostly a collection of photos and quotes - interesting if you are wanting to find out more about the aspects of Aspie girls, but less helpful than I thought it would be. Probably good to show a teenager who is confused about being diagnosed recently.
  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 11 October 2014
    The book is written in a succinct, positive style. It breaks down traits and talents which other AspienGirls experience, and helps the reader to understand the feelings of everyone involved! Also a really, really helpful screening tool at the back, which shows the difference between the classic 'boys' traits and talents, and those often displayed in AspienGirls.

    Really really helped us; I feel more sure than ever that I'm not going mad!
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 14 February 2015
    Dear Tania, I am NOT your AspienGirl /AspienWoman

    For all the useful research summarised in AspienGirl, it fails as the tool for autistic empowerment Tania promises it to be and instead serves to further oppress autistics.

    Tania seems to be seeking some form of ownership over autistic/aspergers female identity; she invented a new name for it (Aspien is not merely a title in the vein of Aspergirls), but more significantly she has trademarked the term, claiming ownership over the autistic identity.

    Her Aspien girls in the illustrations are entirely white which is obviously deeply problematic.

    She takes signs of oppression as innate qualities of autism, such as feeling alienation (as if from another planet), needing to mask ones true self...

    It is a privilege to get to meet lots and lots of autistic people; one that most autistic people don't have access to, except online. Tania says she is for the empowerment of autistic girls and women, but it seems she is only for it if it benefits her career.

    It's a very powerful thing to discover that you are autistic (aspergers, however you prefer to identify) and even more so to claim that as an identity and feel part of a community, but not if that identity excludes people of colour, is commercially owned, and by a non-autistic, and does not promote a world in which all kinds of differences are appreciated and valued.

    It might be said that the book is meant as a lighthearted tool for reflection, but Tania should know that autistic females desperately need accurate representation and to know that there are others like them. That this book will be taken seriously and literally.

    Tania, I am NOT your AspienGirl /Woman
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 29 October 2015
    I loved this book! I got the Kindle edition, and found this book to be really inspiring. It's one of the books I read when I first started researching Aspergers after I began to suspect that I had AS. I wish I had had a book like this when I was a child, to help me understand that my differences weren't wrong. I highly recommend this book!
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    5.0 out of 5 stars Great, informative resource
    Reviewed in Australia on 6 October 2019
    A great resource for anyone who works with females who are on the spectrum. It has some very helpful tools in the back and outlines the differences between males and females who are on the autism spectrum in a meaningful and easy to follow format.
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    5.0 out of 5 stars ASD children need to know they are not alone
    Reviewed in Canada on 29 June 2016
    This book is amazing. My ASD daughter reads the kids quotes and I read the adult quotes. Together she is getting a better idea a) that there are other kids like her b) that those kids deal with the same things she does Thank you for this!
  • Chelsea
    5.0 out of 5 stars THIS IS A TRULY BRILLIANT BOOK! I highly recommend buying this book
    Reviewed in the United States on 7 August 2014
    THIS IS A TRULY BRILLIANT BOOK! I highly recommend buying this book, this book offers a perspective and understanding no other book currently offers. Even if you have read a number of books on the subject of Aspergers or High Functioning Autism in girls - YOU STILL NEED TO READ THIS BOOK!

    I have read many many books on Aspergers (or High Functioning Autism), and in particular Aspergers in girls/women from a variety of authors and experts. There are a number of excellent books on the subject, but what I would like to point out here is that THIS BOOK GIVES AND UNDERSTANDING THAT NO OTHER BOOK CURRENTLY OFFERS. So even if you have read a number of books on the subject, you DEFINITELY NEED to read this one. If you have Aspergers, know or love a girl or woman with Aspergers, are a parent of a girl with Aspergers, or a professional in ANY capacity that deals with girls with Aspergers (school teacher, psychologist, etc) PLEASE READ THIS BOOK.

    This book helps you to truly understand the female profile of Aspergers, not this abstract, typically male-oriented understanding of Aspergers that currently dominates and that few professionals can correctly apply OR few of those with Aspergers or knowing someone with Aspergers can relate to. Understanding Aspergers in girls/women is essential to successfully living with Aspergers.
    I have Aspergers, I was not diagnosed until I was 19. I wish this book was written 30 years ago so it could have been around when I was growing up. It could have completely changed my life for the better. Even now reading it at 26 years of age I am having to stop to put it down and take a breather because it is so spot on it is actually shocking!! We all have our own personalities but the profile of Aspergers in girls is quite specific!!! And Tania nails it. I have been lucky enough to have some appointments with Tania a few years ago and what she did for me in those appointments was help me to understand Aspergers and how it affected me in my day to day life. In doing so I was able to accept and embrace my strengths and weaknesses and from that understanding make empowering choices for myself in my everyday life. 6 to 12 months on from probably less than a dozen appointments I had completely turned my life around, a few years further on and my life is 10 fold better - all from having received this brilliant insight as to how Aspergers affects girls/women. This is what this book offers!!!!!! I urge you to take this fantastic opportunity!

    Because a large portion of the book is written in many short sections relating the experience of someone with Aspergers and someone close to that person, it is very easy and fun to read as a result (and I have a short attention span!!). Tania is also a very good writer. If I had've had this book years ago, or if I were a parent of a girl with Aspergers, I would get this book and pick out the most relevant points and mark them with a sticky note and use this book as an aid in explaining Aspergers to others. Instead of having to try and do all the taking yourself, you could say a few words and say, "Here, read these few sentences here" and let the book speak for you and take some of the pressure off your shoulders or let them see that this IS Aspergers, even an expert in the field says so!!!

    Basically, this is a MUST READ BOOK.
  • Joanne Dacombe
    5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent positive book!
    Reviewed in the United States on 10 December 2014
    I have read plenty of intellectual books and self help books about being on the autistic spectrum so I appreciated the different style of book offered by Tania. This book offers a reflection of girls thoughts as they live and experience life on the autistic spectrum. I felt it could be a good one for parents and girls to read together from a young age to give a positive perspective.
    The cover was of a young girl soaring and I felt this was apt and empowering as aspies can thrive given the right supports, understanding, and encouragement. The contents went on to provide us a glimpse into the lives of girls on the autistic spectrum, through the use of stunning photographs and quotes from girls and families of girls on the spectrum.
    As someone on the spectrum myself I could identify with many of the quotes expressed by the girls. As a parent I could also relate to some of the thoughts shared by parents.
    I enjoyed the use of bright colours, the variety of settings, and the different ages of girls represented in Tania's book.
    I think the book would have most appeal mostly to those who have children on the spectrum but particularly girls who are often overlooked. I found many of the thoughts eloquently voiced by the girls reflected thoughts my son had shared at different stages as well as things I too had experienced.
    Tania gives a brief outline of traits in various areas as well as things to look for in school and issues of self-esteem and cognitive issues.
    She encourages diagnosis but, more importantly, for girls on the spectrum to learn to view themselves through a "strength based lens".
    I enjoyed the book and wish there had been something like this for my son during HIS childhood.
  • Cheerioh
    1.0 out of 5 stars sans intérêt
    Reviewed in France on 18 September 2014
    Il faut savoir avant d'acheter ce livre qu'il ne contient que des citations très courtes de parents de filles avec SA (syndrome d'asperger) et des photos de ces enfants. Je n'ai pas dépassé la moitié. Ce livre ne répond à aucun besoin et n'offre pas grand intérêt.