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An Intimate Encounter, 24 Jun 2007
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A compelling and wryly humorous book charting the effects of a chance encounter and the gap between how we wish to be viewed, how we believe we are seen and how we really appear, in a great mix of the bravely honest and the self-depreciatingly funny. Rob wants to be his old self and not a medical history so he is cagey with Rose17 the woman he meets through an Amazon review. They seem to have little in common except an innate curiosity and an interest in books, but slowly mind games and sexual tension metamorphose into genuine affection. Rob's comments - in asides to the reader - along with various e-mail attachments, notes and quizzes build almost unintentionally into an amazingly intimate glimpse of the interior of one man's head. Perhaps revealing more than he'd counted on.
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Stranger and Stranger, 2 Oct 2006
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Just as well Robert's book is not too long - for once I started it, I had to read to the end! It gives an insight into the intelligent mind of a young man who is certainly achieving great mental goals despite the limitations of his physical illness. I definitely recommend this book.
For anyone to write a first book, it is a challenge and requires much courage in addition to writing talent. For Rob, confined to his home for many years from age 21 with a debilitating illness, it must have taken mind-boggling amounts of determination to exert the physical strength and the emotional energy to achieve this intriguing glimpse into a short period of his life.
The book filled me with curiosity, because it was constantly interesting and because as I turned the pages, I was left wondering what next? Through the string of emails exchanged between Rob and Rose runs a fascinating mixture of other items - poems, puzzles, observations, quotations - you never know quite what to expect but every piece helps you to know Rob just a little bit more!
The book contains so many human emotions - humour, curiosity, excitement, happiness, loneliness, courage, hope, despair, sadness - it gives true insight into some of the difficulties and joys of Robert's life. It certainly makes you think! Wherever life takes Rob and Rose, I wish them the best of luck - and Rob a return to good health. The book left me wanting to read more.......
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A Friend Indeed, 1 Mar 2006
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I am a coincidence aficionado and like to believe that there is no such thing as a chance meeting. However, I am more artistically than mathematically inclined. I wonder if Robert McMullen would be able to use his enviable mathematical prowess to provide us with an equation to determine the probability of him meeting such a warm, funny and intelligent person as Ruth, over the internet, at such a difficult time in his life.
Rob has an undisclosed illness that has made him housebound for several years. To preserve his sanity and mental agility, he posts a (very eloquent) review on the Amazon website. The review is the metaphoric touch paper that ignites and jet propels its way to Ruth’s attention, causing a significant shift in both their lives.
The ensuing email correspondence is warm, funny, insightful and intellectually invigorating, punctuated as it is by a mixture of McMullen’s private commentary, quotations, paradoxes and personality tests. Through these devices he reveals a lot more to the reader than he is able to reveal to Ruth herself.
Ruth seems like a genuinely special person and a true friend. She finds it easier to expose herself than Rob. She has no problem meeting lovers but her relationships seem to lack the intellectual stimulation that she enjoys with her newfound confidant. Rob uses his limited energies to keep his mind active. Despite being ill for many years, he proves himself to be an inspiring and witty correspondent, gliding effortlessly between an understanding of literature, mathematics, science, music and art. However, he yearns for physical contact with a woman. Both characters are searching for answers, both eager to glean more insights into the minds of the opposite sex.
There is a sexual curiosity between the two that ebbs and flows throughout the book, but the main sentiment that resides once the emails reach their conclusion is a genuine friendship. Ruth repeatedly asks Rob how he is, although she knows he is unlikely to answer, “I do care you know” she says tenderly.
Stranger and Stranger is life affirming for many reasons. Both characters face challenges, both experience extreme loneliness at times, both cherish friends and family, both are looking for love. Even in the depths of despair Rob finds a simple action can radically alter his state of mind. In the same way, Ruth’s spirits soar as she travels to work on a beautiful day. Stranger and Stranger also proves that men and women do not need to understand each other at all times to get on. In fact, maybe we’re not so different after all.
I would thoroughly recommend this book- be warned, once started it is impossible to put down.
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