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5.0 out of 5 stars The Gossamer Thread and The Boundless Ocean, 2 Mar. 2014
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This review is from: The Gossamer Thread: My Life as a Psychotherapist (The Karnac Library) (Paperback)
I thoroughly appreciated John Marzillier's wonderful book on psychological therapy, as the reading of it caused deep reflection which led me into many fields. Not least of which is the whole relationship we have with the reflective activity of reading itself. Doors open, horizons widen, intense emotional experiences and thoughtful, reasoned self-questioning occurs; ideas become developed or discarded; change happens.

I most appreciate those books, fiction or non-fiction, which take me into these areas.

Marzillier's beautifully titled book explores his own development in the field of psychological therapy, and the development of particular therapeutic approaches, as much as it also explores his successful or less than successful experiences with clients, suitably anonymised, and often with stories changed, to also protect the confidential integrity of the client's story, in case a former client reads and thinks `that is me!'

John Marzillier almost stumbled into clinical work by default, beginning to work using behavioural techniques in the late 60s and early 70s. This model was heavily based on physiology and learned behaviours, biased towards large scale statistical `objective' scientific studies, and drew much of its methodology from observed animal behaviour. Marzillier began to feel uneasy, as 'something' was missing in this approach, and almost by instinct he found himself, through a more dynamic engaged relationship with individual clients, drawn to exploring thought processes and even gaining curiosity about `back stories'

He was moving closer to embracing the role of the relationship between client and practitioner as integral to treatment. The `relational field' approach though was still in the future for his work. It is a concept central within psychotherapeutic and psychoanalytical approaches, but was not engaged with by the more `impartial' scientific observational ideology of the behavioural approach.

He began to formally train in a then new discipline, cognitive therapy, examining the internal thought processes, the scripts and dialogues which run through our heads. Cognitive therapy of course, in tandem with the earlier behavioural approach, became mainstream as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

My sense, reading this book is that perhaps Marzillier was always as much an artist as a scientist, and therefore, by his own nature, more likely to find that any approach which has fairly set protocols, and a fairly rigid methodology might quickly begin to seem as if it were missing something. It seems to me that no one method or approach, in this field, is ever going to be successful with all people, at all times. Marzillier ended up having a kind of revelation, listening to a lecture given by Dorothy Rowe, well-known for her work in the field of depression, about the centrality of core belief and how it can become entwined with one's very identity. A belief may be useful or destructive, but even a self-destructive and painful core belief can provide the security of comfort - a reinforcement of the sense of self.

His process of progression from scientific certainty, where the steps are known, and the methods can be approached sequentially, so that the method, not the person employing the method `makes' the cure, eventually led him to the uncharted, waters of the mysterious `unknown' of other, and the personal, uncertain route of that more narrative, right brain approach. I had a sense of the psychodynamic psychotherapist (a further training in this followed) like a boat in the middle of an ocean, lacking a map, with destination unknown, steering by instinct, feeling, sense, gut reaction on a journey of trust with his client.

Later, his journey takes him into analysis, to experience the procedure from the other side. He is as thoughtful about himself as an analysand, as he is about his patients, teasing out his sense of the process, and his resistance

As Marzillier points out, there are difficulties in psychoanalysis being verified by the statistical tools - because it is not dealing in certainties, but in ambiguities - the subjectivity of the practitioner is always within the encounter. There is not a set protocol of method, session to session, with set aims and objectives. This is a very real challenge of that therapy. It seems to me that IF the practitioner is both skillful, and congruent , on some deep level, with the client, the work can be amazing, profound, transformational. It is about much more than the client being free of the `symptom' which brought them into treatment, and about much more than the client being `made well' by the method - or by the therapist using `the method'. Instead, there is the possibility of (like with any authentic human encounter), both participants stepping into `meaning' An epiphany of sorts, if you will. The big problem of course, is that it always beset around by those IFS.

Like that other wonderful writer in this field - the humanistic, existentialist psychotherapist Irvin D Yalom, Marzillier is steeped with a sense of art, awareness of metaphor, the poetic. He often illustrates with literary allusion - literature is indeed a potent source helping us to understand the depth and vitality of human experience.

Marzillier also writes not only with warmth, clarity and authenticity - but with a fine sense of the absurd humour that is to be found in even the most serious places.

What is also utterly compelling about this journey Marzillier takes the reader through, is that he is a man who accepts the confusions, the hesitations, the contradictions within any `method' No wonder he embarked on so many trainings, with that recognition that any one party line is too reductive and fixed to capture human exchanges in all their complexity

Or, as he more cogently puts it

"If I have learned anything from a lifetime career as a psychotherapist, it is that there is no universal truth, that everyone is different, and that you, the reader, should take what I or anyone else tells you about psychotherapy with a large pinch of salt"

I found this wonderful book through reading a review by Amazon reviewer Damaskcat - thanks for the nudge into this brilliant book!
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