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This book showed me the light!,
This review is from: It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Breakup Buddy (Paperback)
Its like the slap in the face I needed!
I was so upset.
I was crying.
I was a dribbling mess.
Then I got this book..I am so happy I found it!
Your friends can give you all the advice you need. Your mum can tell you what she thinks you can do. But this book tells you the truth. It doesnt beat around the bush. At times it is brutal. But it lets you have it!
In this kind of situation you need total honesty. This book helps you to understand that the boy who has broken your heart might be beautiful and might have gorgeous hair and you might think that he is going to change his mind. But ultimately he is not. Ultimately he broke up with you because that is exactly what he wanted to do and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it!He broke up with you because he couldnt see how fabulous you are..and he will never see. So no amount of calling or texting or thinking about him or daydreaming is going to make a difference!
Before I read this book I thought I wanted reconciliation with my boy. I thought I wanted him to change his mind and call me and tell me everything was going to be ok. But now I know I don't want this to happen because I want someone better. Someone who isnt a coward or 'scared of commitment' or 'can't give me what I want'
My Mum always told me that you gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince and I guess girls that he is just another frog.
If you want to get over your break up get this book..it cant do it for you. But it can help you a hell of a lot!I am so glad that I spotted it because I could have wasted even more of my precious time (and tears) on a total moron. Now I can move on..I have much bigger fish to fry :) xxxxxxxxxxxxx