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Keep Your Love On!: Connection, Communication & Boundaries
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16 of 16 people found the following review helpful
on 21 June 2013
This book is an inspired and brilliant tool to help you to tackle the deep issues affecting all relationships and to help build healthier ones. It is also, in my opinion, the start of a revolution. The use of control and manipulation is so deeply entrenched in Western culture that most of the time it seems to us to be utterly appropriate and reasonable. We were likely all raised by parents, taught by teachers, pastored by ministers and governed by politicians who believed that it was their duty to control us. Whether it was used with subtlety and within the parameters of the law, or whether it was outrageously abusive, control and manipulation have sunk their teeth into our deepest and most treasured parts and are actually ripping the heart out of our God-dreamed, God-given, God-paid for freedom to be who we are and let others do the same. This book is wonderful, but it's not for the faint-hearted. Personally, it has set me on a journey to change. I suspect it is going to take some time to even come close to where I would like to be, but I am so grateful and would whole-heartedly recommend both the book and the journey.
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14 of 14 people found the following review helpful
on 11 June 2013
God changed my life through this book, one chapter at a time. From marital strife towards healthy connection. If you liked 'Love and Respect' then you will love this. If i had a pound for everytime i said 'that's so true' or 'that's me!' then i would be rich enough to buy hundreds of these books and i would give them out on the streets! This book details such vital connection and communication tools that every human should know, yet in a way that is so simple to understand. It leaves you thinking 'how have i survived this long without knowing this stuff!'. I recommend this book to anyone and everyone, Christian or not, male, female, young, old, married, single who wants to keep their love on no matter what! Danny Silk on top form. Thank you for this gift. Worth every penny.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
on 26 September 2013
This book has set me on an invaluable heart journey. I wish I had come across it before. If you want to know how to cultivate healthy relationships, whether marital, family or otherwise this is a must read. God has really challenged me and reminded me that love is a choice and I can keep it on no matter what. Thankful for Danny's experience and insight into this.
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful
on 13 December 2013
Staying connected to people is what relationships are all about. Danny Silk provides profound insights into knowing how to deal positively with conflict. Highly recommend this smart little book.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
on 7 October 2014
This book is great for looking at the ways you approach relationships. It does feel like it is aimed towards married couples, but I'm not married and have found it extremely helpful! Learning about vulnerability and the way you approach issues in your friendships/relationships/partners is really important, and this book offers great insight.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
on 2 September 2013
Loved Danny's new book. Really helpful for building intimacy in couples, families and ministry teams where trust is required and people get close enough to hurt one another and rub one another up the wrong way. Danny exhorts us to live covenantally rather than defensively and gives us the tools to do it well
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7 of 8 people found the following review helpful
on 11 November 2013
This book is about learning to love one another properly. A love that will last for ever and will satisfy both partners of a relationship, whether man and woman or friendships that you want to last a lifetime. It is well written and easy to understand, however it does require you to think about your own relationships and be prepared to change the way you behave with your friends or partner.
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on 4 February 2015
This book saved my life.
This changed my mindset and helped me change my language.

Now I have an answer when people try to abuse me or bully me; I don't shout and don't make anyone feel less than who they are meant to be.

A few months ago, I got a promotion at work but my new line manager was a bully.They had 17 other ladies on that role just on 2014 alone; however I had no idea of that when I accepted the role.
Every single day she said horrible things to me in front of other colleagues and made me feel stupid and even though I showed her proof of her mistakes, she would change her story and say I should have warned her before, as if I knew what was going on in her mind.
What she thought it would be just 5 minutes of her shouting at me and humiliating me, ended up in 1-2 hours of me standing my ground in a respectful way. After 1 month, I quit mostly because she didn't change while I was there and that type of treatment exhausted me. the pay was awesome, but my sanity and health were more important.
I have learned that sometimes , in order to love well a person you have to move away from them and the truth you spoke over them will someday, somehow become their reality as well.

Healthy boundaries- changed my life.
This book is a must, a must read for everyone.
It will teach you how to love people and how to set the bar high in your relationships.
It will teach you how to be present, how to say no and how to say yes and how to communicate what's going on inside you without feeling guilty or weird.

Funny thing is that, after my language changed, the people around me started changing as well.
The people I never thought they would ever change or be moved..but that's the reality of Truth- it goes deep inside you and it changed u without even realising it. Sometimes it takes a while until your mind gets what's going on in your heart..but that's just a matter of time.

Bless you Danny for writing this book!
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
on 5 December 2013
It's really helpful in understanding relationships between people, and how to connect, communicate and set boundaries in relationships, while getting your needs met and meeting the needs of others.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
on 24 December 2013
So many people think love is a feeling so they cannot be blamed if it comes and goes. Read this book people and take some responsibility for your choices- because that is what love is!!!
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