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19 of 19 people found the following review helpful
on 15 December 1999
Much of what I thought was love I have discovered was actually need and attachment. This book, and Chucks teachings, have helped me discover that real love doesn't cause, but heals pain. This is a truly inspirational book, and I recommend to anyone to support your loving relationships or restore your hope if you have given up on them.
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful
on 24 January 2001
This book can be read through or dipped into as needed, (or both!). Each concept is neatly encapsulated, helpful, encouraging and full of insight. I reccomend it highly, for relationships and life in general.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
on 19 December 2010
When I read the title, 'If it hurts, it isn't love' I thought - what a load of balls. Surely - if it doesn't hurt - it isn't love! Are you telling me all those love songs were a lie?!!! Well, not exactly. All those tragic love songs are how we are conditioned to believe love should be and our only collective experience of what love is. I feel that this book challenges this 'tragic notion of love' (which is essentially unhealthy, blaming of 'the other') and offers a healthier notion of what love is and can be - healthy! It's helped me take responsibility for myself and not place all the blame/judgments onto my partner or other people in general.
I highly recommend this book.
(P.s this book seems be written for people who are already in relationships. Just to point out that I am single and still find this book highly valuable. As I mentioned above, it helps one to reflect on relationships in general and essentially your relationship to other people)
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10 of 11 people found the following review helpful
on 6 March 2006
This is a must have relationship Bible ! Chuck has an answer & encouragement for young & old alike. You will not be able to put it down. GET IT .....YOU WONT REGRET IT !
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2 of 4 people found the following review helpful
on 23 August 2009
I have had a copy of this book for 8 years.At one period I read one of the daily readings every day for 2+ years.I wanted to give a copy to my niece as a wedding present, and was disappointed (and puzzled) to discover that it was out of print.I was very happy to find a new copy at Amazon.If Chuck reads this,would he be interested in an index to make this book even more useful?
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5 of 26 people found the following review helpful
on 30 July 2006
The author says, quote, "...those who are attacking us are also crying for help, asking for our love..."

This is very dangerous and just plain ridiculous. Abuse is just that...abuse. Avoid this nonsense.
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1 of 14 people found the following review helpful
on 15 April 2009
This was a second hand book, graded at "good condition" but it has spills of food and marks on outside of book making it less than GOOD! I cant give it away now....
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