I would like to add another glowing five-star review to the existing six to date. This book is really that good. 'Changing for good' is a no-nonsense, practical self-help book for anyone trying to change their behaviour for the better. Once you absorb its lessons and apply them to your own behaviour (with or without help) you cannot go wrong.
The book's authors trawled the existing literature on behaviour change during the 1980s in search of the factors common to the hundreds of approaches they identified. They came up with a 'transtheoretical model' of change, comprised of six distinct stages that anyone changing their behaviour must go through, whether they seek help for their behaviour or not. The book is based on findings from their empirical research but you won't find any stuffy, academic language within it. The model is explained in everyday terms, as are the nine different processes that can be employed at varying stages of the model.
There are those who believe that successful behaviour change is all about willpower. The book explains why that is a dangerous assumption, as people are rarely sucessful in their attempt first time around and relapse is almost inevitable. Relying on willpower alone is like putting all of your eggs in one basket, and when you fail you blame yourself, leading to thoughts of failure, a sense of hopelessness and an inevitable return to the problem behaviour.
Successful behaviour change is about identifying what stage of change you are at and applying the right processes (including willpower, referred to here as 'commitment') at the right time. Once you have successfully done that, changing for good is the inevitable outcome. If you follow its advice this book will help you to do just that.