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(Un)arranged Marriage (Paperback)

by Bali Rai (Author)
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  • Paperback: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Corgi Childrens (3 May 2001)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 0552547344
  • ISBN-13: 978-0552547345
  • Product Dimensions: 19.4 x 12.8 x 2 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (22 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.co.uk Sales Rank: 33,145 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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Amazon.co.uk Review

A moving story of alienation and identity, (Un)arranged Marriage
follows teenager Manny as he struggles to maintain his links to his
family and live his own life.
The toilets in the motorway
service station at Leicester Forest East stank of disinfectant. But at
least they were warm compared to the biting wind that was kicking up
outside in the car park - where my two brothers Harry and Ranjit were
waiting for me. Waiting to take me to Derby, to a wedding--my
wedding. A wedding that I hadn't asked for, to a girl who I didn't
know.

On the morning of his marriage, which also
happens to be the morning of his 17th birthday, Manny looks back on his rebellious teenage years.

From the age of 13 he has found that the values of the Leicester Punjabi community from which he comes have little relevance to him. He has nothing in common with his brothers or parents. Manny's older brothers appear to him to glory in their ignorance while his father is a hypocritical, violent drunk. His mother is a remote figure who appears only to ask what he wants to eat or to cry hysterically at his disobedience. Knowing that he is expected to follow the same path as his brothers into an arranged marriage at the age of seventeen and a blue collar job, Manny makes the decision to try to make himself the most unsuitable suitor possible, the bridegroom that no-one will choose for their daughter. Finally though, it is a family trip to India which irrevocably sets Manny's mind on the course he had always suspected that he would have to take.

Written in the first person, (Un)Arranged Marriage feels very much as if it is inspired by personal experience, if not of Manny's specific situation then of his environment. The characters inhabit an unsentimental, realistic world, a world where kids often don't try quite hard enough at school and families cannot bridge the huge generation gaps between them. Perhaps what is most striking about Manny is his complete alienation from the Punjabi culture which his family are trying so hard to preserve, and his overwhelming detachment is skillfully captured here. The culture that Manny inherited is completely eclipsed as he embraces the Western culture he finds everywhere outside his home and which offers him the choices he desperately wants. --Rachel Ediss

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MANNY WANTS TO BE A FOOTBALLER. OR A POP STAR. OR WRITE A BESTSELLER. HE DOESN'T WANT TO GET MARRIED...'Harry and Ranjit were waiting for me - waiting to take me to Derby, to a wedding. My wedding. A wedding that I hadn't asked for, that I didn't want. To a girl who I didn't know...If they had bothered to open their eyes, they would have seen me: seventeen, angry, upset but determined - determined to do my own thing, to choose my own path in life...' Set partly in the UK and partly in the Punjab region of India, this is a fresh, bitingly perceptive and totally up-to-the-minute look at one young man's fight to free himself from family expectations and to be himself, free to dance to his own tune.

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12 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars (un)arranged marriage - an honest, touching book, 17 Mar 2003
I've never really thought about arranged marriages in depth. I'm Catholic, so i've never had to deal with the thought of marrying someone i didn't love, or even like. In this autobiography, Bali is told by his father that he will have an arranged marriage at 17. His world falls apart. His education, his girlfriend, (who undersatands him more than any of his family have ever done), his mate Ady. They were the only things he cared about, but as soon as school finished he lost them all to 'a nice Indian girl.' A marriage that he didn't want, that his future wife wouldnt want. And why? To keep up the family's honour of being a proper Punjabi family. Before reading this book i never realised how many lives have been ruined for the sake of tradition.
This book shows how much a person can do if they set their mind to it. But it also shows how hard it is to make something of yourself when your parents don't believe in YOU. This book gives us a chance to have a look in at a different culture, and it's marvellously written. This book is one of those books which is completely UNFORGETTABLE!
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars This book is amazing!!, 25 Sep 2002
By Miss A S Hill (Harlesden, London United Kingdom) - See all my reviews
This book is amazing and soo far away from the cheesy teen romance i am used to reading... there is such a stereotype that it is only the women who are affected by arranged marraiges we never think about how the boys might feel and this little insight into the life of Manny was wonderfully done i couldn't put it down
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Great story but disappointing style if you're a grown up!, 24 Mar 2002
By A Customer
Really enjoyed this book, although I didn't realise until half way through that the classification on the back says it's for children. That made sense as the style, whilst clearly making the narrative appear realistic, was far from challenging. I was left wishing the book had instead been written for adults and had therefore had scope for even deeper insight into what is a fascinating and emotionally charged scenario.

For a teenager in a similar position - awaiting an unwanted arranged marriage - I would imagine that this book would give them some strength to challenge their situation and help them work out their confusions. But perhaps it is the parents of these potential bridegrooms who should be the ones who read it instead.

I would read another book by Bali Rai, but look forward to him writing perhaps for grown ups too one day.

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5.0 out of 5 stars fantastic book
excellent delivery on book, excellent book - good to read from a males point of view of arranged marriages.Well done Bali Rai.
Published 2 months ago by S. Sambhi

5.0 out of 5 stars Nice touching story
This book has a very nice touching story and it is quite entertaining book especially if you are familiar with Indian culture and traditions. Read more
Published 2 months ago by M. Nazemi

4.0 out of 5 stars An honest voice
A very honest account of a young Indian man's struggle to live his life in London. He wants to have a Western life style, while his parents set up an arranged marriage for him. Read more
Published 11 months ago by Lou Ice

4.0 out of 5 stars Entertaining and thought provoking
A book that engages from the start - Manny is a charming narrator, open and honest, and his dilemma is well drawn, without it becoming a cliche - there are shades and subtlies... Read more
Published on 10 Feb 2008 by Beebarf

5.0 out of 5 stars Add this author to your favourites!
Again another book by Bali Rai which takes your breath away! (lol)
THe book is different as in it potrays an 'arrnaged marriage' scenerio from an asian lads perspective... Read more
Published on 10 Oct 2006 by Book Addict

4.0 out of 5 stars grooßes tennis....ganz großes tennis
I really enjoyed reading this book, although I had to read it for school. It was really interesting because it mirrors the culture clash between the eatern and the western world... Read more
Published on 26 Jan 2006 by stroni

4.0 out of 5 stars a very interesting book
We read this book at school and in our opinion it is very interestring. The author describes the characters very detailed, so that you can nearly feel with them! Read more
Published on 26 Jan 2006 by bial ria

4.0 out of 5 stars Rather good
I find this book good because it presents the problems of arranged marriages and Indian traditions really detailed, interesting and understandable!
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I really enjoyed reading this book, although I had to read it for school. It was really interesting because it mirrors the culture clash between the eastern and the western world... Read more
Published on 26 Jan 2006 by stroni

2.0 out of 5 stars Boring?-No, it's more than this...
I am an English student from Germany. We read this book in class and I admittedly have to say that Bali Rai's book (un)arranged marriage is totally boring. Read more
Published on 20 Jan 2006 by TonneTheNo1

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