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The Household Guide to Dying (Hardcover)

by Debra Adelaide (Author)
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  • Hardcover: 384 pages
  • Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers Ltd (16 Jun 2008)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 000727470X
  • ISBN-13: 978-0007274703
  • Product Dimensions: 22 x 14.2 x 3.6 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (12 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.co.uk Sales Rank: 428,149 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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'Adelaide's moving novel captures both the hope and sadness of Delia's plight.' Daily Mail 'Darkly comic novel with a tone that is Desperate Housewives meets Six Feet Under!this is caustic and hilarious, as well as heart-warming. A clever read that stays with you for a long time.' Red 'A novel about loving and grieving!filled with humour, warmth and sadness -- just like life.' Good Reading 'Debra Adelaide has created one of the most irrepressible and beguiling heroines!I finished the book in tears. Adelaide captures [the leaving behind] with an intensity that constantly slides into comedy, the kind in which laughter segues into crying!sublime on the battles with crumbs, washing up, and the laundry basket. In a class of its own.' Sydney Morning Herald 'Deliciously maverick...dazzlingly original. This vibrant, original novel keeps a steady focus on dying and the ways in which it shapes and hones the living.' The Age

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A brilliantly moving and darkly comic novel, which charts the attempts of dying heroine Delia -- a modern day Mrs Beeton -- to prepare her family for the future and lay to rest a ghost from her past. Inspired by her heroine, Isabella Beeton, Delia has made a living writing a series of hugely successful modern household guides, as well as an acerbic domestic advice column. As the book opens, she is not yet forty, but has only a short time to live. She is preoccupied with how to prepare herself and her family for death, from writing exhaustive lists to teaching her young daughters how to make a perfect cup of tea. What she needs, more than anything, is a manual -- exactly the kind she is the expert at writing. Realising this could be her greatest achievement (for who could be better equipped to write The Household Guide to Dying?) she sets to work. But, in the writing, Delia is forced to confront the ghosts of her past, and the events of fourteen years previously. There is a journey she needs to make, back to the landscape of her past, and one last vital thing she needs to do.Hugely original, life affirming and humorous, The Household Guide to Dying illuminates love, loss, family and the place we call home.

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11 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Touching, emotional.. wonderful! , 11 Jan 2009
By Michelle Moore "bookclubforum.co.uk" (Kent, UK) - See all my reviews
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Delia Bennet is the author of a series of successful modern household guides. She's also dying from cancer. As she has her own experience to draw on, she sets out to write a final guide.. `The Household Guide to Dying'.

Whilst researching and writing this book, Delia comes to realise that there are issues in her past that she has to face, and deal with. One day she climbs into her car, and takes a journey that she hopes will help her do just that.

The story moves around in time, jumping between events. Early in the book, it is easy to lose track as to where you are in the story, so it's certainly one to pay attention to, rather than dipping in and out.

For me, however, there came a point where I started to feel myself fully immersed in the way of writing, the evolving storylines, and the characters, and I had difficulty putting it down.

Delia writes about dying in a candid and straightforward way - she develops her own ways to deal with her feelings, and what is to come.. and in doing so, she also starts to deal with the past. I love that feeling when I know a book has me hooked, and this was it!

This is a very emotional book, touching on some heart-breaking events, but it avoids being overly sentimental. This may not be the way that you, as a reader, personally expects to face your own death, but it's completely believable that it's Delia's way.

There are many aspects of the story that I don't wish to spoil, as I believe that are best met in the way they unfold. It's possibly not a book that everyone is going to get along with, but if you do, I suspect that you will gain a lot from it. My main advice is to not give up on it if you struggle at the beginning, as this is a book I would not have wanted to have missed.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Very Original, 26 Dec 2008
By Lincs Reader (Lincolnshire, England) - See all my reviews
An excellent read that I really enjoyed - and although the subject matter may sound depressing and more like a misery memoir it is far from that. This is brilliantly original and charts Delia's attempts to provide for her family after her death. She writes list, teaches her young daughters to make a real cup of tea and boil eggs and plans their weddings.

Delia writes an advice column for a living and has also written a series of modern household guides - she wants to write a 'household guide to dying', but she also wants to sort out unfinished business from her past.

The story follows Delia on her journey and also through writing her guide. At times it brings a lump to the throat and at others it raises a giggle.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Uplifting and Enlightening, 18 May 2009
The Household guide to Dying follows the story of Delia who is terminaly ill and has onlymonths to live. The book revolves mostly about her struggles with death, but there is also a side plot in which Delia needs to lay some ghosts fromher past before the moment arrives.

This book is witty yet subtle, sad yet happy. Most of all it will question your every day existence and how you feel about those you love. This book is well worth the risk and I look forward to more from Adelaide!
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4.0 out of 5 stars A guide - and so much more
Delia Bennet has a wonderful life. She is in her late thirties, happily married with two young children. She has a lovely home. Read more
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4.0 out of 5 stars Gentle book, moving and unusual
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5.0 out of 5 stars loved it!
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