Sam Iam

Helpful votes received on reviews: 50% (34 of 68)
Location: UK


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Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry an&hellip by Lundy Bancroft
12 of 30 people found the following review helpful
I come from an abusive family, in which my father was violently abusive toward my mother, myself and my siblings. My mother was also emotionally and verbally abusive, extremely manipulative and oftentimes cruel. Yet because my father's behaviour was explicit and my mother's more subtle, he was labeled as the scapegoat 'abuser' by society and she was treated as pure and innocent. While recognizing the faults and failings of my father I resent the biased way society looks at the breakdown of our family. This book continues the tradition of blaming the man for all abusive behaviour in dysfunctional marriages. While I agree that the man should be held 100% responsible for his actions, in almost… Read more