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Giving Up: The Last Days of Sylvia Plath
 
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Giving Up: The Last Days of Sylvia Plath (Paperback)

by Jillian Becker (Author)
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  • Paperback: 48 pages
  • Publisher: Ferrington (23 May 2002)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 1898490317
  • ISBN-13: 978-1898490319
  • Product Dimensions: 17 x 10.6 x 0.8 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.co.uk Sales Rank: 342,825 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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A British writer with whom the poet spent her last weekend perceptively details her final days while offering her own insights into Plath's death, marriage, and ambitions. Plath has become an icon, polarizing friends and family as well as admirers, and Becker tries to set the record straight, as she sees it. She believes feminists have falsely hijacked Plath for their cause, failing to recognize that the intensely ambitious poet never "scorned the traditional woman's role of wife and mother, homemaker and housekeeper." Becker begins with the bitterly cold Thursday afternoon in February 1963 when Plath phoned and asked if she and her children could visit. Once there, she asked if they could stay overnight. As the two women's children played, Plath talked bitterly of Assa Wevill, the woman her estranged husband, fellow poet Ted Hughes, was living with. Later, she asked Becker to sit by her bed until she fell asleep, showing her the two bottles of pills and their instructions: two from one bottle at bedtime, two from the other on waking. Saturday night, Plath dressed up and went out to meet someone; Becker speculates it might have been Hughes, seeking a reconciliation. The author details in measured prose the family's Sunday lunch and Plath's request that Becker's husband Gerry take her and the children home afterwards. Her host wasn't overly concerned: Plath seemed cheerful at lunch, and Becker agreed with the poet's doctor that the need to take care of her children would keep her alive. She also admits to being tired of coping with Plath, whose need for her attention was relentless and exhausting. In the remaining chapters, Becker ponders the poet's reasons for taking her life, speculating that a sense of losing her gift might have been as much a factor as her failed marriage. Addressing the myths that have grown up around her friend, Becker wants to reclaim the part not consumed by Plath's ambition. Thoughtful and intelligent: a welcome corrective to the legend. (Kirkus Reviews)

Independent on Sunday, 19 May 2002, main paper
The bitterness and rancour surrounding the suicide of Sylvia Plath is revealed in a new book ... defying years of "censorship" by [the Hughes] family.

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5.0 out of 5 stars "Plath in all her Humanity"., 14 Oct 2002
"Giving Up" may be very brief, but its pithy prose and sharp insights give us a portrait of Sylvia Plath that avoids hagiography or demonization. The feminist icon of Plath as saintly, if neurotic victim, as damaged genius, does little justice to her erudition, her intellect, and her poignant longing for happiness. Becker's work presents us with an extraordinary mind, not simply overflowing emotions, and her view of Plath is utterly plausible, for it is the view of a critical, but always devoted friend.

Becker's depiction of Hughes is also persuasive, including some scathingly perceptive comments on his pseudo-humility and arrogant spite. "Giving Up" is also a masterly piece of brisk literary criticism, and its demolition of the cruel excesses of Hughes's "Birthday Letters" is especially impressive.

It is difficult to categorize such an original work -- memoir? Essay? Literary analysis? "Giving Up" is all of these, and Becker's writing is always lucid, often extremely affecting, and illuminated by flashes of mordant wit. The conclusion of this work is deeply moving, and -- like "Giving Up" as a whole -- it makes one see Plath through new eyes.

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4.0 out of 5 stars Giving Up: the Last Days of Sylvia Plath., 5 Jan 2004
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This is a tactful and personal account of the final weeks of Plath's life. Written by a friend who supported her during this time it clarifies both the frailty and autonomy of Plath, whose life has been over-romanticised by myth and assumptions. Well worth reading.
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4 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars a wonderful insight, 25 Mar 2006
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I found this (yet again!) another compelling book about Sylvia Plath. So honest, pure and true to memory. i could not put it down and read it instantly (it was only short) but i found it refreshing to read a new perspective about Plath and her life/works. the views on her and hughes, their break up, what someone else saw and thought.
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