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Ten Foolish Dating Mistakes That Men and Women Make (and How to Avoid Them) (Paperback)

by Lila Gruzen (Author), Rebecca Sperber (Author)
4.4 out of 5 stars See all reviews (11 customer reviews)

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  • Paperback: 192 pages
  • Publisher: Griffin Publishing (Dec 1998)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 1882180879
  • ISBN-13: 978-1882180875
  • Product Dimensions: 21.3 x 13.7 x 1.3 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.co.uk Sales Rank: 2,106,452 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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OUR BEST-SELLING BOOK ONLINE
If you are still single - it's your own fault. This book delivers on its promise to help the dateless by breaking "The Rules" in hopes that it may be the last book frustrated singles ever have to read in order to find a lasting relationship. "Ten Foolish Dating Mistakes...is one of the most refreshing and informative books I have ever read on this subject. I recommend it strongly to all my single friends." Steve Zall, Los Angeles columnist for the Vegas News

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Learn how to stop buying into the "Men vs. Women" syndrome
Learn how to stop buying into the "Men vs. Women" syndrome. It's not too late to change your dating attitudes and behaviors so that you can achieve romantic happiness! Everyone grows up learning relationship behavior mostly through the actions and attitudes modeled by family members and other authority figures. Is it any surprise that we have negative and maladaptive ways of behaving? We reach adulthood without having learned how to express our feelings effectively, to argue constructively or to love fully. We believe that you deserve to have what you desire in a relationship. You do not have to continue being lonely. TEN FOOLISH DATING MISTAKES can teach you once and for all how to stop ruining your chances for lasting love . . . 1. Learn why giving TOO much TOO soon feels good & ends badly 2. Discover your own errors in judgement, perception & behavior 3. Learn how to identify a dating lemon 4. Stop being a pain sponge 5. Read dialogue from healthy vs. unhealthy relationships 6. Learn how professionals evaluate relationships 7. Uncover what your own dating behavior really says about you If you want a romantic relationship, you should be able to have one - NOW! BY: Authors Lila Gruzen, Ph.D., MFCC and Rebecca Sperber, M.S., MFCC

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1.0 out of 5 stars Banal and over-simple, 15 Jun 1999
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Do we really need to be told that giving expensive presents on the second date is not a good idea?

Or telling your life story (including mental illnesses and child abuse) on a first date probably won't win you a lover?

Or that diving into bed straight away may be a bad idea?

Of course, if you hadn't gathered all this for yourself, then you need this book.

Most of us have already worked it out.

Only for the complete dating disaster area who hasn't got any friends to tell them where they're going wrong.

I'm afraid that if you need this book then you're already a hopeless case!

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3.0 out of 5 stars Relationships "Lite", 27 Jul 1999
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This book has everything you need to cure your dating dilemas, but the information is presented in such an "in your face" style that it may offend some dater's delicate sensibilities. Yeah, I'm flawed, but I don't need the good doctors to hit me over the head with it. Break it to me gently. Some of this stuff may be a revelation to the truly dating impaired, and we need a little more coaching to make it our own. Don't get me wrong, this quick reading book covers every dating mistake you are likely to make (many more than the 10 in the title), and gives you suggestions for improvement. However, if you would like to have the subject covered with more sensitivity, try reading John Gray's Mars and Venus on a Date, or Barbara DeAngelis' Are You the One For Me?
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5.0 out of 5 stars This book is about obvious things . . ., 21 Jul 1999
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Which I didn't know or pay attention to. It is really basic and that means you are doomed if you are making these mistakes. I would love it if my date had read it before. Really, really good. Sometimes it gives extremely good hints to research further about possible origins of our mistakes. Not sexist, good for anyone trying to improve relationships.
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4.0 out of 5 stars sound advice
The book is easy to follow in format and offers much practical advice for dealing with people and for self-examination. Read more
Published on 11 Jun 1999

5.0 out of 5 stars SUPERB, EVERYONE WHO'S SINGLE MUST READ IT!!!!
I went through a very difficult relationship, and then broke up, it has taken me 21/2 years to sort of get back on my feet, everyone always said that my dating techniques were... Read more
Published on 26 Mar 1999

5.0 out of 5 stars incredible bible of dating!
I read about your book in Cosmo, and I just had to go out and buy it. As I read it, I became more confident of myself, and believe me when I say that this book has changed my... Read more
Published on 2 Mar 1999

5.0 out of 5 stars good for 1st love of person
i love the book. with this help i got martried to right girl.
Published on 24 Nov 1998

5.0 out of 5 stars I thought I'd be alone forever.. until I bought this book!
This is the best book ever! I thought I would never find anyone who would want to date me until I read this book! Read more
Published on 23 Nov 1998

5.0 out of 5 stars This book helped me fall in love
I just wanted to compliment Sperber on a job well done! this book is a fantastic summary of what to do and not to do on a date. Read more
Published on 17 Nov 1998

5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book! - Has very practical advice and help.
This book has some very useful advice for anyone willing to look at their own dating habits and patterns. Read more
Published on 30 Jul 1998

5.0 out of 5 stars Great book on the common sense, useful "Rules" for dating.
Dr. Gruzen has successfully used humor, personal experience and anecdotal stories to teach common sense, useful and practical "Rules" for dating.
Published on 17 Jan 1998

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