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Relative Stranger: A Life After Death (Hardcover)

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  • Hardcover: 335 pages
  • Publisher: Canongate Books Ltd (2 Mar 2006)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 1841956759
  • ISBN-13: 978-1841956756
  • Product Dimensions: 23.2 x 16 x 3.6 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars See all reviews (5 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.co.uk Sales Rank: 341,592 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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"Written with great flair, clarity, imaginative intensity, and extraordinary confidence and style. Honest and unvarnished and without mawkishness of any kind. Convincing, gripping and moving, it will deserve to be a triumph." JONATHAN DIMBLEBY "An unobtrusive tact and rare capacity for empathy" ANTHONY STORR, INDEPENDENT ON SUNDAY"

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'On the twenty-seventh of January 2001, while I was skiing fast down a mountain in France, my sister, Catherine, was dying slowly in England; in a hospital I didn't know she had been admitted to, from a cancer I didn't know she had, under an identity I had no idea existed.' "Relative Stranger" is the riveting story of Mary Loudon's search for her dead sister, whom she had not seen for the last twelve years of her life. An explicit account of the devastation that schizophrenia can visit upon a person and their family, it will leave no reader unaffected. Asking more questions than it answers, "Relative Stranger" offers a profound and uncompromising challenge to the ways in which we think about one another. Perhaps most compelling is the author's internal journey as she faces head-on her sister's illness and extraordinary alter ego. As Loudon dissects our definitions of sanity and identity, and examines our assumptions about familial responsibility, she challenges everything we believe about what it means to love, to lose, to die, to live and, above all, to belong. "Relative Stranger" is Mary Loudon's most provocative and moving book to date. It is sure to be one of the most talked about and acclaimed books published in the UK next year.

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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Intensely Moving & Haunting, 15 April 2006
By Christina (London) - See all my reviews
  

Mary Loudon's memoir of her late sister's life is intensely personal. The author does not flinch from graphic detail, she visits the places her sister used to go, the cafés she is supposed to have eaten at, sifts through her paintings, music and letters, seeks out the people she turned to for support, and yet Catherine's personality and substance evades us, even in death. The memoir gives rise to the question whether it is possible to ever know anybody else, even one's own sister.

Mary Loudon resolutely concentrates on her own reactions, she chats with Catherine's nurses, doctor, social worker, newsagent to build a picture of who her sister was. The great achievement is that far from reading like a standard biography, date of birth, place or birth, list of things done, a collage of other people's cuttings, etc., it is the things that preoccupy Mary herself, as Catherine's baby sister, in the immediate weeks after Catherine's death that focuses our attention.

Mary Loudon examines her own and others' apparent callousness in reaction to news of Catherine's death, given Catherine's self-selected isolation from her family and community owing to her schizophrenia, which has thrown her into a world of seemingly incomprehensible paranoia and 'madness'. Mary's description of Catherine's flat is horrific, and the reader shares with Mary the need to comprehend what lies behind the 'madness' of it all, the isolation and the illness. We share Mary's momentary fury that 'they' should have done more for Catherine, whilst at the same time acknowledging that Catherine's own wishes were being respected, not least by her own family. That Catherine came from a normal, kind family - reflected in the personal journals of Catherine's GP father, who went to India personally to find her, but refused to force her or lie to her to return to England - makes the sad story all the more poignant. It made me reflect on all the 'mad' and lonely people one sees tramping around the streets of London, many of them well-spoken, and wonder, who are they? Are they like Catherine? Do they have loving families and friends that they have cut off from their lives because of the ravages of schizophrenia? What can be done for them?

The book gave me enormous food for thought because it made me consider my own community as well as give an insight into how to write a skilful memoir with immense power, without ever falling into sentimentalism, romantism, prurience, nor glossing over hard unpalatable truths, not least about ourselves and our own reactions towards the insane, and our own fears surrounding the issues. A very complex book written simply and beautifully.
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A uniquely personal journey from grief to acceptance, 12 Mar 2006
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Mary Loudon's latest book Relative Stranger offers a unique insight into a life burdened with the extremes of a devastating mental illness and its consequences upon family life. Through her highly individual and compelling style the authour takes us through her own personal process of grief and finally, acceptance. It is an intensely moving experience and one we can take an awful lot from.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Not to be missed, 4 April 2006
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Mary Loudon's touching account of the life of her sister, Catherine, who suffered with schizophrenia, cannot fail to engage its readers. I was immediately taken up with this story, by the honesty with which Mary Loudon depicts herself and her sister in light of Catherine's gradual disappearance and untimely death, and by the intelligence she brings to bear on the situation.

Relative Stranger is written with the simple style of a confident writer who knows her subject and can anticipate the questions that need answering, and others that have no answers but nonetheless require our attention. The honesty with which Mary Loudon writes about Catherine, and more specifically about her own life by comparison, is refreshing. This writer has caused me to consider many of the presumptions I have made about mental illness, about schizophrenia, and about family. A marvellous, unique tribute - I loved it.

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