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A Life's Work: On Becoming a Mother (Paperback)

by Rachel Cusk (Author)
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Product details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Fourth Estate; New Ed edition (1 Jul 2002)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 1841154873
  • ISBN-13: 978-1841154879
  • Product Dimensions: 19.4 x 12.8 x 1.8 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (15 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.co.uk Sales Rank: 173,218 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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Amazon.co.uk Review

Rachel Cusk's A Life's Work is the tale of her pregnancy and the birth of her daughter Albertine, which follows the ups and downs of the life of this first-time mother up to the time when her infant takes her first steps. Those moments, whether breastfeeding, coping with colic, enjoying her first smile or feeling free and yet trapped when away from her daughter, are told in raw and honest detail. Moments become hours, days, months and suddenly years--one colicky night can seem like any others for months, then suddenly distressed night-time crying is a thing of the past. Cusk has subtitled her book "On Becoming a Mother", and while other mothers may find similarities of experience within its pages--perhaps relief at not being the first or last mother who cannot leave her baby to cry, whatever the healthcare manuals might say--this is an account of her own unique experience with her daughter.

Saturating the text is her almost unbelievable ignorance and naïvete about looking after babies. However, she herself admits on the very first page that "My own strategy was to deny it [childbirth] and so I arrived at the fact of motherhood shocked and unprepared, ignorant of what the consequences of this arrival would be". Cusk reads Dr Spock, Penelope Leach and the library of baby-care "experts" after the birth, and amusingly dismisses or agrees with their advice. She also intersperses her trials with excerpts from Jane Eyre's imprisonment in the Red Room to Lily Bart's childlessness in The House of Mirth and Coleridge's "cradled infant" in "Frost at Midnight".

Cusk achieves engaging, amusing and touching reading out of what could be the interminable boredom of a crying, sticky, demanding baby. Despite her constant cries of fear of imprisonment by this "tetchy monarch", her love cannot help but seep through her moans and complaints, together with her almost frightened realisation that her daughter, even at a week old, is a separate person. Cusk acknowledges her "stepdaughter, friend and ultimate ally", with the hope that she will one day read and like the book. Perhaps she should wait until she is pregnant with Cusk's first grandchild to be aware that her new experience is a very old story. --Olivia Dickinson --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.



Nicholas Lezard, The Guardian

'There is a ferociously vigilant intelligence at work in every line of this book...grimly funny.'

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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A must for any career minded new mother, 4 Jan 2002
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A thoughtful discussion of the conflicts that develop between the demands of a small baby, and the life of an active and intelligent woman.

A gritty, emotional book that is beautifully written, and will strike a painful chord with any new parent trying to reconcile the interests of a baby with one's own life.

Rachel Cusk's book brought tears to my eyes as I remembered my own inner battles during the early days of my son's life, and I thoroughly recommend this book to any new parent who struggles with the personal sacrifices that parenting brings.

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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A must for any new mum, 3 May 2003
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I came across this book when I had 3 month old baby and was still struggling to adapt to all the changes motherhood had brought to my life and the emotional rollercoaster I found myself on. It articulated exactly how I was feeling, and though some other reviewers found the book negative, I actually thought it wasn't. It does detail the negative emotions you might sometimes experience (which I did), but ultimately the book left me feeling hopeful that I, too, would not only learn to adjust to being a mother, but also enjoy it. And, thanks to the different perspective in this book, I learned to adjust and enjoy while reading this book.

I thoroughly recommend it.

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17 of 18 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars So beautifully written it brought tears to my eyes., 25 Nov 2001
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I have a two and a half year old and another on the way in the new year, and had heard that this book was a negative dirge. I have little tolerance for whinging and approached it with some trepidation expecting to be irritated. I feel that my own experience of having a baby has been a very positive one- I feel happy and successful as a parent (so far!)- but there wasn't a word in this that didn't ring true for me. In fact I think it is a mark of this book's sincerity that it acknowledges the difficulty and darkness of parenting- and it's that which makes the luminous love Rachel Cusk has for her child so very moving and real. It's not a simple book - I think people like the idea that parenthood is, or should be, simple. I really loved this book. In fact it's one of the best books I've ever read.
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