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Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction (Paperback)

by Patrick Carnes (Author)
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  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Hazelden Information & Educational Services; 3rd Ed edition (7 April 2001)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 1568386214
  • ISBN-13: 978-1568386218
  • Product Dimensions: 21.1 x 13.5 x 1.5 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (12 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.co.uk Sales Rank: 28,151 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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With detailed descriptions of the four stages of sexual addiction, the author outlines the dynamics of dependency and offers evaluation methods and solutions. The text addresses issues relating to behaviour, cultural standards, legal consequences, the victim, and public opinion.

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28 of 30 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars I thought I was alone - but I wasn't - there were others!, 28 Oct 2003
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This book is truly a revelation - from the very beginning it makes the reader face up to the true nature of sex addiction - and to discover whether or not they are an addict. It not only shows the outward signs of addiction (and their inevitable disastrous results) but goes beneath the surface to show the underlying core beliefs that support and reinforce the addiction.

Using true to life stories (an amalgam of others experiences) it leads the addict through a gentle path of understanding through to ways of moving forward to healing.

In addition to the addict themselves, it casts light on the role of the "co-dependent" - (this can be partner, spouse, parent or any other family member whose life has been bound up to that of the addict) and explains in simple language how this has occurred and what to do about it.

One small complaint about the writing style is that there are some dull clinical parts - the author is, after all a clinician - and it does become a bit repetitive at times.

Having said that, if you feel you might be a sex-addict or in a close bond with one, then this is a great starting point for healing the addiction and the co-dependency.

Thank you for reading this review, I hope you find it helpful and true to the book when you read it for yourself.

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21 of 23 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Carnes is able to get right inside the addicts head., 3 Feb 1999
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Carnes has completely captured the mind of the sexual addict in minute detail. Disecting each and every action and thought explaining the reasons for and behind the behavior. For 22 years I lived and was married to a sexual addict and didn't know. I was in total denial. Finding out was the biggest shock and not knowing what to do. I was fortunate enough to be told about Patrick Carnes' book. I purchased the book online (so I wouldn't suffer the embarrassment of asking for it in a bookstore) and couldn't put it down. To be able to understand in a small way the "why" of my husbands behavior allows me to not feel so guilty or in some way responsible for his behavior. I never thought a book on this subject could be called fascinating--but it is just that. Each and every paragraph had something in it that hit home. He completely is able to analyze this behavior and explain the reasons without making the addict or co-addict feel less of a person. Although my husband and I are separated, I plan on passing this book on to him as he feels he can't beat this addiction. I am hoping this book will help him as it did me, to understand.
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11 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Partners of Addicts can benefit from this book!, 9 May 1997
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Sexual addiction has a profound impact on the partners and families of the addict. The road to recovery is a long hard journey as Dr. Carnes points out. For the partner of an addict, this book helps you understand that what you've been living with is NOT about you. You come to realize that this is a disease just as alcoholism is a disease. You learn what it's about, how it can progress if not treated and how recovery is a possibility. You also learn about co-addiction and the role you play in this insidious addiction. This book was a lifesaver for me and put me on the road to recovery from my own co-addiction.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Isolates the problem, and hints at the solution
This book has been great for me to get a better understanding of what I am going through. But with most therapeutic approaches it focuses more on the problems and not on the... Read more
Published 3 days ago by jhonnyrocket

4.0 out of 5 stars A helpful insight into the mind of a sex addict
I am now divorced from my husband who is still a sex addict. This book has helped me understand the how and why of his behaviour. Read more
Published on 6 April 2002

5.0 out of 5 stars A Classic for the Newcomer and Significant Others
I am a professional psychotherapist and have been treating sexual addiction for over 11 years. For all of this time, I have recommended this book as a starting point for... Read more
Published on 12 Dec 1998

4.0 out of 5 stars Excellent, broad introduction to mind of the sex addict.
"Out of the Shadows" offers an introduction to and an exploration of the profile, behaviors and motivations of the sex addict. Read more
Published on 16 Nov 1998

5.0 out of 5 stars Finally, someone understands.
As a recovering sex addict, I have read countless numbers of books and pamphlets and have found this author to be the only one with real insight into the mind of the codependent... Read more
Published on 27 Jun 1998

5.0 out of 5 stars Saved my Life
This book showed me that I am not alone. Without being moralistic, the author shows that this problem can and has been overcome. Read more
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2.0 out of 5 stars not very good
it is not written in a very informative way, it is not a good book for people with friends who are sex addicts, it does not go into detail of the psycological aspects, or what... Read more
Published on 25 April 1998

5.0 out of 5 stars An Essential Resource
Out of the Shadows is an essential resource for anyone affected by this addiction. Mr. Carnes provides clear, concise, and straightforward information (unemcumbered by the... Read more
Published on 19 Nov 1997

5.0 out of 5 stars Sex Addiction - Partytime?
Sexual addiction is treated in a sensitive and accurate manner in this premier book on the subject. This disease, always progressive if untreated, can ruin one's life if left... Read more
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