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The Primal Wound: Understanding the Adopted Child (Paperback)
by Nancy Verrier (Author)
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33 of 33 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars At last I'm starting get somewhere!, 22 Jun 2000
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I've just ordered this book cos I want my adoptive mother to read it, even though I'm half way through my own copy (bought elsewhere- sorry Amazon!). I think it'll stop her asking herself "where she went wrong"! Though I'm sure it could be difficult reading.

As a 25 year old adoptee, I figured I'd nobly managed to get to adulthood without having to go looking for my birthparents, or otherwise getting hung up on my adoption. This book has shown me that even though I don't wake up each morning cursing my natural parents for deserting me, the latent grief felt as a baby, when I couldn't put words to it, affects me and partly accounts for some of my traits.

I'd recommend this book to any adoptee, whether you think you really care about having been adopted or not. It's not about regaining the past, or falling back on a second set of parents. It's about jogging your memory and trying to remember the person you started out life as, so that hopefully you can put a more tangible mental link between your birth and childhood.

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31 of 31 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars I also now know I'm not mad or bad, just adopted., 4 Feb 2000
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I discovered this book at the end of '98, and, as emotional as it is, I could not believe that everything I had ever felt during my life - and unable, or not allowed, to express - was written in black and white. Nobody had ever addressed adoption with me (even a counsellor about eight years ago totally ignored the issue!) so this book felt like a revelation to me. Although I am still the same person, I at least understand what I am about. I too have bought many copies to give to close family and friends and would recommend anyone close to adoption to read it. I only wish I had had this insight as I was growing up - I could not work out what was wrong with me and this could have saved a lot of pain. I sat through a seminar held by Nancy, who spoke brilliantly - She was truly enlightening as is The Primal Wound.
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28 of 28 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Adoption from different perspectives, 22 Sep 2004
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I read this book with some trepidation, I was a bit scared I would find out things I didn't want to know, but discovered that the way I am isn't all my fault. At times I felt I could have written parts of the book, other bits were not so relevant to me. It helped my husband understand me a little better. I would recommend this to anyone wishing to know a bit more about the parts of themselves they or others don't understand.
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4.0 out of 5 stars An adoptive Mum's View
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1.0 out of 5 stars Please read this, but with caution
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This book proposes a theory that certainly resonated for me. Because our adopted son came to us at 6 days old and was a happy healthy baby we assumed all would be well. Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars A superb book, and a must-read for adoptees
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