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The Sociopath Next Door (Paperback)

by Martha Stout (Author)
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"A fascinating, important book about what makes good people good and bad people bad, and how good people can protect themselves from those others."
--Harold S. Kushner, author of "When Bad Things Happen to Good People
""The Sociopath Next Door is a chillingly accurate portrayal of evil--the decent person's guide to indecency."
--Jonathan Kellerman
"A remarkable philosophical examination of the phenomenon of sociopathy and its everyday manifestations...Stout's portraits make a striking impact and readers with unpleasant neighbors or colleagues may find themselves paying close attention to her sociopathic-behavior checklist and suggested coping strategies. Deeply thought-provoking and unexpectedly lyrical."
--"Kirkus Reviews" (starred review)
"A chilling portrait of human beings who lack scruples the way someone born blind lacks eyesight...Stout describes respected professionals who tell outrageous lies simply to confuse colleagues... authority figures who deceive, seduce and even murder just to relieve the boredom that is the usual state of the sociopathic mind. A useful--if appalling--guide to help you recognize conscienceless individuals.. [and] a heartening affirmation of the empathic mindset that comes naturally to the vast majority of humans."
--Martha Beck, "O Magazine
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"The Sociopath Next Door is a chillingly accurate portrayal of evil-the decent person's guide to indecency. Martha Stout draws upon sound scientific data and clinical experience and her writing is graceful and compelling."
--Jonathan Kellerman, author of "Therapy,"" When the Bough Breaks," and "Monste"r.
"[Stout] provides provocative discussion about the role of conscience inthe 'normal' world. Highly recommend."
--"Library Journal" (starred review)
"One in 25 Americans is a sociopath-no conscience, no guilt. It could be your mean boss or your crazy ex. [The Sociopath Next Door] is an easy-to-follow guide for spotting them."
--"Newsweek"
"I recommend this book, especially to those who think they may be vulnerable to sociopaths. It contains good stories, useful advice and clinical and scientific nuggets."
--"Washington Post"
Winner of the 2005 Books for a Better Life Award


Synopsis

Who is the devil you know? This is an astonishing, chilling and appallingly useful guide to recognising conscienceless individuals. Everyone knows what a sociopath is. A sociopath is Hannibal Lecter - the cold, calculating monster who has no compunction, no sense that what he or she does is wrong. No conscience. An inhuman and often violent criminal. Wrong. Hannibal Lecter is a sociopath, for sure - but sociopaths are no more Hannibal Lecter than dogs are Spot. The lying, cheating ex. The boss who loves to humiliate in meetings. The colleague who steals ideas and passes them off as their own. A shocking four per cent of ordinary people have an undetected mental disorder, the chief symptom of which is that that person possesses no conscience. They can do literally anything at all and feel absolutely no guilt. One of their chief characteristics is a charisma that makes them more charming or interesting to others - and hence tricky to identify. Sociopaths learn early on to sham emotion, but underneath they are indifferent to others' suffering, they live to dominate and thrill to win. And statistically, every reader will know at least one, if not more. Dr.

Martha Stout uncovers the hidden signs of the sociopath, teaching readers to question authority, suspect flattery and beware the pity play. Everyone has been sucked into the game at some point - now they have a way out.


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32 of 32 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Insight , 21 Jan 2007
Martha Stout provides a clear explanation and description of 'the sociopath' that ranges from simple examples of the devastating impact people without conscience are able to have, to an incisive and broad ranging overview of our understanding of morality. Dealing with sociopaths is tough, not least because they are arch-manipulators who know how to shape our emotional responses unseen and un-noticed by us because we make the assumption that they are driven by the same impulses as we are. This book makes it clear that this error is the most destructive one we can make - sociopaths are not 'like us', they can not 'be reasoned with' or 'reformed'. This knowledge is invaluable for anyone whose life comes in contact with a sociopath, but also fascinating for all who seek to understand human nature and why people do what they do!
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24 of 24 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Read this book!, 22 Jun 2007
We are accustomed to think of sociopaths as violent criminals like Hannibal Lechter or Ted Bundy.

Martha Stout in this book reveals how a shocking 4 percent of the population have the same chief symptom, namely a complete lack of conscience. The difference is that the majority with this mental disposition operate within the laws and only rarely get caught.

The book is easy to read without having a psych degree and Martha Stout uses many examples to show how these people charm and deceive their way through life in total disregard for the impact on other people.

Martha Stout further teaches how to identify a sociopath and how to protect oneself from the impact of one.

I found the book clear and light and also a celebration of the 96% who do have a conscience.

The book is well worth reading along with "In sheeps clothing" by George Simon, "Political Ponerology" by Andrzej Lobaczewski, "The mask of sanity" by Hervey Checkley and "Without conscience" by Robert Hare, that all deal with different aspects of the phenomenon.
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5.0 out of 5 stars An exellent overview, 10 Jul 2007
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In 'The Sociopath Next Door', Stout concentrates on those sociopaths who are not violent but who remain hidden amongst us. She estimates that 1 in 25 of the US population are sociopaths meaning that they have no concience.It's a claim that you might easily dismiss before reading the book, but haven't you met someone who seems to undermine your efforts at work for no apparent reason, who makes you feel sorry for them so that they can manipulate you, or someone who only thinks about themselves without an aparent care for anyone else?

Stout explains quite complex theories in language that is easy to understand. She looks at historical and Freudian theories about the nature of conscience. One of the most interesting parts for me was her consideration of the impact of Millgram's Obedience experiments and what this means for the general populations' risk of being manipulated by these people.

She also includes a handy 13 point plan that will prevent you being targeted.

An excellent study which is really easy to read. Recommended.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Decent introduction to psychopathy
Imagine - if you can - not having conscience, no feelings of guilt or remorse no matter what you do, no genuine sense of concern for the well-being of others. Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars Sociopath next door, well done Martha.
This book is invaluable as an indepth study of the Sociopathic mind, it is easily understood by the layman and I would recommend reading it twice to really absorb the knowledge... Read more
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2.0 out of 5 stars Enjoyable, but not for serious students.
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Published 14 months ago by J.P

5.0 out of 5 stars This MUST be in your "books to read" list
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Martha certainly makes the point about 1 in 25, or 4% of the population are without conscience a few times. Read more
Published 17 months ago by bucksman

5.0 out of 5 stars BEST READ FOR ANYONE WHO HAS BEEN ISOLATED AND MANIPULATED IN A RELATIONSHIP
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2.0 out of 5 stars Opinionated and misleading
I find it a bit surprising to see this book receiving such high marks. I agree it's easy to read, but it's also shallow, opinionated, biased and even misleading... Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars An informative read
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5.0 out of 5 stars If you have a conscience you need to read this book!
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