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If My Father Loved Me (Paperback)

by Rosie Thomas (Author)
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  • Paperback: 516 pages
  • Publisher: Chivers Press (Feb 2004)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 0754092771
  • ISBN-13: 978-0754092773
  • Average Customer Review: 3.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (5 customer reviews)

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The opening line of Rosie Thomas's 15th book, If My Father Loved Me, is an intriguing one: "My father was a perfumer and a con artist". The daughter of this "grand master of deception" is Sadie, a divorced bookbinder, with two children who has carved out a calm life for herself. She loves her job and her friends and her charming daughter Lola is on the way to college. Her son, Jack, is more problematic--he's not a typical drink-and-drugs adolescent, instead he's a loner who likes bird watching and animals, but who doesn't seem overly fond of his mother.

Tricky parental situations are abound in this novel. Firstly there's Sadie's uneasy relationship with her father Ted--when Sadie's mother died "he was left with a beady-eyed and unpliant child" and Sadie was left with a father who was an expert in "bottled dreams", flirting and double-dealing, but not so hot on child care. Elsewhere friends have uneasy truces with their lover's children while divorced couples try to keep their parental roles on course.

Rosie Thomas handles all this domestic drama with compassion and kindness. The characterisation is adept and the emotional dilemmas real and involving. Add in the lovely details abut the creation of scent--descriptions of the fragrance of Jasmine in Grasse, the appeal of Ted's Mayfair shop Scentsation "a faint breath of fresh flowers and warm aromatics which conjured up worlds of glamour and privilege," and you have a perceptive and engaging novel. --Eithne Farry --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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'A master storyteller' Cosmopolitan 'A special talent' The Times 'Thomas's novels are beautifully constructed and written. This one is a treat' Marie Claire 'Beautiful effortless prose... she shows a rare compassion and a real understanding of the nature of love' Sunday Times 'A story full of passion, heroism and all those things that keep you reading long after bedtime' New Woman

A delightful novel which picks its way gently between poignancy and lightheartedness, this latest story from celebrated writer Rosie Thomas will be much enjoyed by her many fans. Sadie and Mel are close friends who share every detail of each other's lives except Sadie's past, which is a closed book, even to her. When her mother died Sadie's father Ted, a gifted perfumer and charming conman, neglected Sadie in favour of a succession of 'aunties'. Truth and illusion have blurred to the extent that her adult life has been marked by the belief that her father did not love her and her current difficult relationship with her son seems set to repeat the patterns of her own past. When Ted dies suddenly, Sadie embarks on her own journey to lay the ghosts of her unhappiness to rest in the hope of rescuing her life today. As we have come to expect from this author, themes of love and friendship are skilfully woven together and entangle friends and family across generations. The subtleties of her characters are gently revealed and empathy for their situations keeps the reader glued to the book. But this is not mid-life family crises in soft focus: rows with children, disappointments with friends and frustrations in work all ring true and the complications of modern life are articulated with both compassion and humour. Tragedy strikes unexpectedly at several points in the book and forces the reader to look at the issue of acute and violent loss. Not everyone can have a happy ending but the book remains optimistic and this emotional whodunit, pinned securely against real life, is a very satisfying read. (Kirkus UK) --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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9 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Another Great Book by Rosie Thomas, 24 July 2006
By R. Steele (UK) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: If My Father Loved Me (Paperback)
I must admit to start with I wasn't sure whether I was going to get into this book, but once it got going I couldn't put it down!

The story is about Sadie, who has to come to terms with her fathers 'colourful' past, and her own when he dies suddenly. Some ghosts from her fathers past arise and she also has to deal with some problems with her son.

Rosie Thomas never fails to deliver a good read, and she certainly doesn't disappoint with this one!
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1 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Rather predictable but i enjoyed it., 2 Aug 2008
By Leeds lass "The Banker" (England) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: If My Father Loved Me (Hardcover)
Sadie`s father was an alchemist, a con merchant - and something else too,which we are not told about until near the end - but you see it coming a mile away. I skipped a few pages where the `ingredients` of the perfumes her father made were listed endlessly and it became rather tedious. Also the `get togethers` were just too unrealistic, like a tv soap, where the same people gather at weddings etc, and they are all friends of friends, and all get along famously. They rang each other at any time of the day or night, took time off work to sort out one another`s problems, and generally lived in each other`s pockets. Sadie had a bad day and arrived home to find 2 of her best friends in her house cooking for her and telling her to sit down and relax. No - it wouldn`t happen. Sadie `just happened` to have a child seat in her car for her friend`s baby - although there was never any cause for Sadie to take this child anywhere, and i hated the author`s mistake where Sadie was in her boyfriend`s car - the one time sadie did have to take the baby somewhere - and ` Sadie strapped the baby into the car seat.` There was no car seat for the baby in her boyfriend`s car - sadie had only known him a few weeks ! That really irritated me ! I give 4 points for this book because there is a lot of feeling in the story - even if it is wrung out to the last drop - i had tears in my eyes when sadie`s father died, it was extremely emotional. A difficult book to review - it had a very strange and sudden ending where everything just fell into place very quickly - i actually turned the page expecting more...
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4.0 out of 5 stars Growing Warm Glow, 30 Nov 2009
By M. J. Saxton (Dewsbury, West Yorkshire United Kingdom) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: If My Father Loved Me (Paperback)
I found this a very comforting read. The story deals with so many aspects of isolation that you wouldn't think it would be. It is a coming-to-terms novel of varied dimensions.

Sadie has to come to terms with the death of her father: someone she has always venerated yet felt totally separated from in emotional terms. The death is dealt with very quickly and there is a moment where the story seems prematurely ended. Some readers may have difficulty getting beyond this point.

Sadie is settled and in control; you agree with her reasonable view of the world, her past, her children. Rosie Thomas uses commonly accepted behaviour patterns in revealing her central character to the reader, then demonstrates that from an inverted viewpoint they betray insecurity and a need to control.

It is not the others who are unreasonable, it is Sadie. Yet so much of the story is couched in everyday terms. That's the clever thing about this novel: there are no huge momentous events (some dramatic ones, yes) on which the plot turns. Sadie could be any one of us and her emotional coming-to-terms is rooted in the diurnal round.

Ted evolves from the glamorous film-star type into a shabby middle-class man who couldn't keep it together.

Jack, her son, is a joyous creation, adolescent angst to the fore.

It is a moving story, but not sentimental, and there are some lovely comic moments, the siege outside Audrey's being the most memorable.

A put-your-feet-up, sit back and chill book.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Kept me hanging on every word
I listened to the unabridged audio version of this book, and then bought the paperback. What initially attracted me was the perfume-making and the descriptions of the perfume... Read more
Published 14 months ago by H. Petre

1.0 out of 5 stars Empty characters, dull story - a disappointing read
Despite reading this book from cover to cover, it was a truly disappointing read. The characters were contrived, the circumstances were irritating and the ending was so saccharine... Read more
Published 23 months ago by Nancy Williams

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