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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
A book that makes you think, 16 Jul 2000
By A Customer
This book will demand a lot of patience from the reader, after the first two chapters until you get to the final three chapters. The final chapters are excellent material that should make the reader think, and hopefully solve difficulties in personal relationships. Some very useful quotes from the book are:Brain Builder #147 in chapter 14: "Begin to treat family members more impersonally, as you would business associates....Don't become emotional with your parents; you wouldn't do it with a client or coworker. You wouldn't shout at a client, 'You never listen to anything I say!'" Brain Builder #149: "Would you come to work in a bathrobe? No, you dress with dignity for the office, but you can ruin the dignity by snippets of personal behaviour that are out of place, and because of which, consciously or unconsciously, others pin labels on you....The strong possibility exists that you're giving people the ammunition they can use against you." From chapter 15: "The most crucial step you should have mastered by now in Brain Building is perhaps the hardest: admitting that you have made errors, can make errors, do make errors, and will make errors....A positive side effect is an increase in your popularity; people really seem to love somebody who confesses to erring....Power thinking is not based on 'opinion'. The word is a crutch, spoken merely to lend dignity to groundless thinking. People who have no reasonable means of intellectual support say, 'I have a right to my opinion.' Don't you be one of them....It's not the courage of convictions I admire, it's the accuracy, and that accuracy only comes from a diligent pursuit of the truth." I am thankful to the author for this book. It has really enlightened my thinking.
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