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by Beverly Engel (Author) "In an age when women are supposed to be strong, independent, and liberated, it is embarrassing to admit that when it comes to relationships with..." (more)
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  • Paperback: 304 pages
  • Publisher: John Wiley & Sons; New edition edition (9 Feb 2001)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 0471409790
  • ISBN-13: 978-0471409793
  • Product Dimensions: 23.2 x 15.4 x 2.4 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.co.uk Sales Rank: 89,582 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)
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Although modern women are able to maintain a successful independent life , many still psychologically succumb to the old-fashioned societal expectation that their overriding role is to be a loving subservient mate to their man. By reading Loving Him Without Losing You, "women will come to understand that the tendency to lose themselves in relationships is partly a natural by-product of their cultural conditioning and biological hardwiring".

Beverly Engel, psychotherapist and author of numerous self-help books for women (such as Raising Your Sexual Self-Esteem), sets about explaining the phenomenon of the "Disappearing Woman". A woman who, in spite of being strong, secure and self-assured, forfeits her own personality and ignores her own needs whenever she enters into a romantic relationship.

Do you tend to fall head over heels in love quickly and intensely? Do you neglect friendships to be with your lover? Do you tend to undervalue and question your own feelings whenever they differ from your lover's? Do you need constant reassurance of your lover's feelings toward you? According to Engel, these are just some of the symptoms of "Disappearing Woman" syndrome.

Loving Him Without Losing You offers empathy and insight coupled with exercises and cures. By including excerpts of interviews with 47 subjects, the author illustrates the biological and sociological factors that cause women to become "emotional chameleons" and offers advice to those stuck in similar behavioural ruts. Empowering and encouraging, Losing Him Without Losing You is a must for all women who immerse themselves in their men. --Christopher Kelly --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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Are you a Disappearing Woman?

"Beverly Engel has identified a widespread problem and provided women with wise guidelines for bursting through it. She writes with compassion and insight. If you think you are a Disappearing Woman, you will drink in this book as if it were a health–giving elixir. It is!"–Susan Page, author of How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together and If I′m So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single?

"This remarkably helpful book offers new insights into why so many women surrender their individuality in relationships. Don′t wait until your hair is on fire to read it."–Maxine Schnall, founder and Executive Director of Wives Self Help

"A book of depth and power. I highly recommend it not only to women who lose themselves in their relationships with men but to the parents of adolescent girls who need to be taught how to view themselves as valuable beings separate from their relationships with men and boys."–Michael Gurian, author of The Good Son and A Fine Young Man

Do you frequently find yourself putting your lover′s needs ahead of your own? Do you tend to lose yourself in your romantic relationships? Have you ever neglected your career, your friends, or even your health while in the midst of a love affair?

Now, in this landmark book, Beverly Engel examines the intricate reasons why so many women submerge themselves in their relationships with men–and offers a straightforward, empowering program that you can use to free yourself from the powerful grip of this all–too–common problem and rediscover yourself as a Woman of Substance.

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12 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars In depth journey, 14 May 2003
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This book has helped me to understand why I did what I did and gives very good examples on how to work on the painful problem. It pointed me in the right direction and I repeat reading the book. I'm seeing the process as a kind of recovery and am glad to have bought this book. I'm a single and might be for a while until I feel that I'll successfully cope without "giving up everything" to be with a man. Those of you who've found out that they've done this before will know how painful it can be and how painful it might end... do yourself a favour and heal. Good luck.
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Highly Recommended for anyone who experiences problems in re, 24 Feb 2006
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This is the best self-help book I have ever read and believe me, I have read many!
I have known for years I have a problem in relationships with men, but despite years of soul-searching and many therapies, could never find the answer(s).
Beverly Engel has the key. Not only does she describe the problems most women have in relationships, but she acknowledges and describes these problems and actually comes up with strategies to overcome these and become yourself. She hands back the reins of control in her simple 7 stage strategies.
Easy to read, easy to follow and very empowering.
A real must for any woman who finds she disappears in relationships.
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7 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful..., 3 Jun 2003
This is the best book I have read on its sort. I urge ANYONE, EVERYONE who feels that they lose themselves in relationships to read it. I saw myself being described a million times in this book. You can learn so much from it! Start changing your life. This book has changed mine!
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