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  • Hardcover: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Basic Books (16 Aug 2001)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 0465051383
  • ISBN-13: 978-0465051380
  • Product Dimensions: 21.1 x 14.5 x 2.3 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.co.uk Sales Rank: 482,595 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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A psychologist challenges the tyranny of optimism by claiming that negative thinking is often a far better way to deal with anxiety than striving to stay positive. How often are we urged to "look on the bright side"? From Norman Vincent Peale to the ubiquitous smiley face, optimism has become an essential part of American society. In this long-overdue book, psychologist Julie Norem offers convincing evidence that, for many people, positive thinking is an ineffective strategy-and often an obstacle-for successfully coping with the anxieties and pressures of modern life. "Defensive pessimism," which involves imagining the worst possible outcomes to any action and everything that could go wrong in a given situation, actually helps millions of people manage their anxiety and perform their best work, all the while refusing to succumb to "oblivious optimism. "Drawing on her own research and many vivid case histories, Norem shows how to use defensive pessimism and provides evidence and fascinating explanations of its powerful benefits. While there is no "one size fits all" prescription for confronting psychological roadblocks, Defensive Pessimism will help people identify the method that works best for them, and provide practical, proven advice on changing strategies.

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32 of 32 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Individuality in Positive Thinking and Optimism-Pessimism, 1 Nov 2002
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The psychologist who wrote this book developed and validated a new measure of individual differences in personality: The Defensive Pessimism Questionnaire. It also can be called 'constructive pessimism' or 'adaptive pessimism' or even 'realistically positive thinking.' The key is the different strategies that individuals use to manage or harness anxiety, moods, and motivations (adaptively or not). The theme is "No one size fits all people." Are you a constructive pessimist, a hopeless pessimist, a self-handicapper, a strategic optimist, or an unrealistic optimist? How do these different types of people get along at work, in love, as family and friends, or at play? Drawing on original psychological research and interesting case studies conducted 1985-2001, Professor Norem helps us answer these questions about personality and individual differences.

I really liked the way the concluding chapter talks about prospects for change and growth, with a focus on tolerant understanding of self and others, and on optimal psychological health for different individuals. For people like me who value diversity and growth, The Positive Power of Negative Thinking is an impressively helpful contribution. I suppose this book is a bit controversial in the way it challenges the "everyone should be an optimist" chant of the American 'positive psychology movement' but that is what makes the book so creative and original. I find the author's realistic approach to recognizing and valuing individual differences to be insightful and even liberating. So I recommend this book because it is real psychology that is helpful for real people as we seek to live better and be happier.

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28 of 29 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Good for some, harmful for others, 24 Feb 2006
By M. T. Allenby (Northampton, England) - See all my reviews
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This book is going to be incredibly useful for a certain type of person. That person is someone who meets these criteria.
1) Tends to see the potential pitfalls and dangers in situations
2) Uses this awareness to plan effective strategies to minimise those dangers in advance
3) Carries out these plans with low levels of fuss and distress and so manages to be productive and effective in what they do
4) Is sick of being told to 'stop worrying' or to 'look on the bright side' by those around them
For people in that situation this book is well researched, tightly argued and an effective tool.

The people who may find this book harmful are those or meet the following criteria.
1) Whenever something bad happens they think it will last forever, ruin al their life and be their fault or totally beyond their control
2) When thinking the way decribed in 1) become highly distressed or paralysed into inaction
For those people this book runs a serious danger of reinforcing their disabling thinking and may result in a significant danger in thinking style becoming seen as a virture.
Probably the best way to read this book is to read it alongside something like 'Learned Optimism' by Martin Seligman and to personalise the mixture of realistic optimism and constructive pessimism that suits you.
As you read this book please be careful. It does parody the 'positive psychology' movement as a Polly-Annaish way of thinking. True positive thinking doesn't say that everything will be wonderful, it simply says that even if the worst happens you have the skills and resources to limit its duration and extent of impact, and you can get many of the things that are important for you by applying strategies of realistic optimism.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Realistic Psychology for Real People, 26 Feb 2002
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The psychologist who wrote this interesting new book provides significant understanding and help for those of us who just are not the naturally upbeat type of "American-style" optimists. Finally a book that truly respects and values the wide range of individual differences that exist for optimism and pessimism. The concept and quiz for the personality style "Defensive Pessimism" support a positive interpretation of the adaptive value of being a person who thinks through worst-case scenarios and uses anxiety to motivate and carry out effective actions. I like the balanced approach in this book that helps the reader understand both the dangers of unrealistic optimism and the virtues of constructive pessimism. This is a welcome relief from the one-sided optimistic bias of the American positive psychology movement; here we can find realistic psychology for real people.
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