From the Author
An Excerpt and an ExplanationContrary to what many think, I didn’t write this book for those *not* on the net and those who have *not* engaged in cybersex. Though it is informative for people interested in the subject, my goal was to validate the experiences of net-sexers.
Many people feel guilty or confused by their virtual love affairs. They don't understand why they are so obsessed with someone they've never met, sometimes someone whose appearance, age, or even gender they can't verify.
The email I’ve received from people who've read the book has shown me that many do appreciate knowing they are not alone in their urges. They were relieved to read that their feelings of love and lust were not "weird" but normal.
My aim was to explain the dynamics behind the cybersex phenomenon and to suggest that cybersex will be incorporated in the lives of many of the computer-age generation. It is not an oddity. It’s a growing part of our global culture.
