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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Brilliant and moving book - unmissable, 2 May 2004
I thought this book was amazing. The author had lived through the most unimaginably horrible experiences under the Khmer Rouge yet she writes in a way that is not bitter or in any way sympathy seeking. I found I could not put this book down, each time it seemed her life could not get any worse something awful happened and I really don't know how she survived. I think this book shows how much a human being can endure without giving in and Ms Him is a shining example of this. Im so glad that she has a new life in America now and I hope many people read this book and realise what the Cambodians went through under this terrible regime.
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11 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
a must-read, 27 Sep 2000
By A Customer
Don't slot this into the war or "KR" genre. This is an eloquent and touching book by any standards, and despite the heavy context, I am certain that anybody, upon reading the first pages, will be spellbound. Fans of "God of Small Things" eat your heart out - this book invites you to observe the minutiae of life in seemingly exotic lands without being trite, and will leave you knowing things about yourself that you didn't before you read it.
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27 of 31 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
"It lives symbiotically inside of me.", 15 Dec 2002
That sentence is how Ms. Chanrithy Him describes where her soul rests, her old soul. When she came to America she feels she has a new body, but her core remains untouched. Another reviewer states that these stories make him angry. There is no manner with which you can read a book like this and not feel a range of emotions of which anger might be the kindest description of what eats at you. The evil, the cruelty that humans inflict upon each other is so regular and so savage, I finish books like this and I don't know what to feel. If this were an isolated incident, an aberration, it would be easier to examine as any exception may be dissected. Just during the 20th Century the following list of Genocides come to mind in the order they occurred, the slaughter of Armenians by the "Young Turks" when they decided to try to eradicate Armenia once again. This is where the phrase "Young Turk" originated. So if you hear it used, hopefully the speaker is not complimenting on the genocidal personality to whom the comment is directed. The speaker is probably just poorly informed. The Turkish Government to this day denies the Genocide ever took place. The Holocaust of the Jewish people by the Germany of WW II. Unlike Turkey, Germany has taken responsibility for what took place within her borders. The Japanese and the butchery they engaged in while they occupied Nanking in China. The demons who are described in this book including, The Khmer Rouge, lead by Pol Pot, again millions died. Arguably the distinction of greatest mass murder of all time would be the Russia/USSR of Lenin, Stalin, and the criminals who followed them. The carnage continues in Chechnya, and the majority of the Former Soviet Republics are trying to stay fed and warm. Ms. Him is an astonishing human being. She not only survived this horror as a child, she had the courage to recall and place this horror in writing so that the rest of the world would know what she saw. She is an example of what the Human Spirit and its desire to survive are capable of. It is beyond my ability to imagine. This little girl who would remember and continue to display respect with the traditional "sampea" when greeting someone, when to do so could have gotten her killed. She was as scared as anyone caught in this man made hell, but she was defiant and true to herself, perhaps that helped her to survive. I had to put this book aside more than once while reading. The last book I had as much trouble getting through was "The Rape Of Nanking". I never finished that book. I have read about the historical events that I listed above, but that book was especially brutal. If may have been the photographs. The photographs in this book are not what you would expect. Ms. Him leaves the story between her and the reader, no photographs to shock, just her memories. Genocide does not stop it only pauses, as the Hutus and Tutsis recently demonstrated. The sad conclusion may be that this sort of evil is part of who we are as a species. The events in Cambodia differ from events in the US in time only. What was done to Native Americans, The Slave Trade and the race problems that linger to this day, the difference is of method and time only. Ms. Him also shares the amusing stories of the difficulties of shaking hands, or of her translating for doctors when the description may include certain areas more private than others. But by sharing this she also shares her transition from her culture as a child and then her new life as a young woman. Lest anyone suggest I have a problem with my own Country's History, I will save you the trouble, I do. The World often looks to us whether we choose the role or not, and candor with ourselves must come first. In the end it did feel good when the thrill of the future was dominated by the fact she and the survivors in her family were coming to the US. Read the description of her first understanding of freedom, how dry your eyes will not be. Thank you Ms. Him, and my condolences on the family and friends that were taken from you. Your coming to The United States will make us a better Country.
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