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Freeing Ourselves From The Mad Myths Of Parenthood! (Paperback)

by Susan Jeffers (Author)
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  • Paperback: 336 pages
  • Publisher: Hodder Mobius (6 April 2000)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 0340708581
  • ISBN-13: 978-0340708583
  • Product Dimensions: 17.2 x 11 x 2.4 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars See all reviews (17 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.co.uk Sales Rank: 405,877 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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Susan Jeffers, author of the hugely successful Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway and other self-help bibles, brings her attention to bear on children and motherhood. The stereotype that an unhappy adult is created by a bad mother is a fundamentally damaging misconception about just how much responsibility a mother should take for the happiness and success of her offspring, when grown.

Why not fathers? Why assume that adults cannot take responsibility for their own actions? Who says that people are entirely the product of their parenting and not their genetic make-up, or what the author calls their "sphere of being"; that is, the larger circle of their life, such as friends, teachers, media and so forth? Answer? So-called experts, who have no real evidence on which to base their assertions.

Jeffers' book is assertive and aggressive in tone, but then she is setting out to rattle the cage of a belief that has pervaded attitudes to parenting since the Victorian age. It is possible to love your children and not love parenthood. Don't have children if you don't want to--it's a valid choice. Why should the mother always, seemingly automatically, get custody after a divorce?

This is a truly refreshing read for mothers--and indeed fathers--who want to hear a new and distinctive voice on these questions, among those that drone the same old repressive paradigms. --Alison Jardine. Originally published as I'm OK You're a Brat.

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"* 'BRILLIANT! A brave and revolutionary book that dares to confront many of our long-cherished beliefs about parenthood and parenting' - Susan Forward, author of EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL * 'At last, totally guilt-free parenting! If only I'd had this book sixteen years ago when I started out' - Jenni Murray * 'There is a terrific ring of truth about this book. Encouraging for parents and non-parents alike, it throws a clear spotlight onto what it really means to have a child' - Hester Lacey, Independent on Sunday * 'The self-help guru Susan Jeffers may be on the verge of achieving the impossible: that of winning the admiration of parents far and wide with a seriously politically incorrect book about children' - Serena Alcott, Telegraph * PRAISE FOR SUSAN JEFFERS' PREVIOUS BOOKS - * 'Susan Jeffers' books are always fun to read, and she has done it again with EMBRACING UNCERTAINTY. She leads the reader through the art of enjoying life in her own unique style!' - Louise L. Hay, Author of YOU CAN HEAL YOUR LIFE an * 'Now more than ever, Susan Jeffers' wisdom feels like a precious gift. Her counsel is profound and meaningful in such challenging times.' - Marianne Williamson" --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Finding parenthood tedious? This is essential reading., 13 Feb 2000
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If you are finding accepting the life change that is becoming a parent difficult then this book is a must. Refreshingly honest, it pulls no punches but makes you feel you are not alone. Becoming a parent can be an incredibly physically and emotionally draining experience. The last thing you need is to feel guilty if you are finding things hard-going. This is the perfect antidote. I cannot recommend it enough.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars For those who have struggled with infertility, 31 Oct 1999
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Save yourselves a lot of agony, needles, drugs, emotional pain and money. Having been through the Infertility War ourselves, with no success, we are now trying to come to terms with living without children.

This book is great reading for anybody in this space as it is the only book I have seen that gives lots of positives reasons not to have kids. The overwhelming images in society are of the the happy and fulfilled mother. After reading this book you would think it was all just a conspiracy of our DNA!

This is the first book I have read that says that parenthood may not be, all it is cracked up to be. This book cheered me up no end and made me realise our situation may have some positives that I can learn to appreciate.

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5.0 out of 5 stars A positive review from new mother of twins., 19 Aug 1999
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As a first time mother of 10mth old twins, I can empathise with the vivid descriptions of the day to day physical and emotional slog of raising children. Initially (and rather depressingly) the negative emphasis struck me as dominating Jeffers' thoughts on the subject. However, as I persevered it became obvious that the whole picture of motherhood was being painted, and with humorous passages that made me laugh out loud. I particularly thank Ms. Jeffers for her thoughts on breast feeding, at last someone with a sensible attitude to the issue, that I want to tell every new mother about! Exploding the myths of motherhood she certainly does, and I feel this book should be a compulsory text for teenage children when being educated (are they?) about the decision to have children later in life (I intend to give this book to my children as soon as they hit puberty...). It is perhaps of more use to those still considering parenthood, but it does provide support to parents and 'free us from the guilt' that we do perpetually seem to torture ourselves with.
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2.0 out of 5 stars positive and life affirming???
I condsider myself to be a Susan Jeffers fan, so I was pretty surprised by this book.
I'm a parent of two small children myself, so I get that parenting is a very very tough... Read more
Published 22 days ago by Natalie Hansen

5.0 out of 5 stars An enormously helpful read for the involuntarily childless
It's no exaggeration to say this book changed my life. It has helped me come to terms with my infertility in a way that nothing else I've read has done. Read more
Published 13 months ago by J. Glass

1.0 out of 5 stars Dont buy this if you are a new parent
One of the most negative books I've ever read, a thoroughly miserable read. Jeffers rams home her point by continually quoting people throughout the book on how miserable they... Read more
Published 15 months ago by Mr. Ce Southern

4.0 out of 5 stars Resonates when you are struggling
Okay, I agree there are times when Jeffers seems a little extreme in her views but this was the first time I found a voice for lots of little guilty thoughts I had. Read more
Published 16 months ago by J. L. OREILLY

4.0 out of 5 stars Fairly good antidote to the "Blame parents for everything" culture
If you are looking for a humorous antidote to the current culture of blaming parents for everything that's wrong with the universe and something to damp down the huge complex of... Read more
Published 18 months ago by Marshall Lord

5.0 out of 5 stars An Excellent Book
I have an LBP gene (you'll understand if you read the book!). However, I like this book as it is parenting without the sugar coating and presents a real view of many people's... Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars I'm okay you're a brat
This book is very good, you can now be safe in the knowledge you are not the only one out there sceaming and pulling your hair out; which in its self is reasuring!! Read more
Published on 19 Aug 2003 by kim krokoksz

5.0 out of 5 stars Finally, the truth!
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5.0 out of 5 stars A totally liberating book
Susan Jeffers must have been reading my mind since my child was born. She has dared to put into words things I've felt too guilty to even think about; how you can love your child... Read more
Published on 12 Feb 2000

5.0 out of 5 stars debunks the pro-parenhood dogma
It's so nice to have a book out there that's about the *drawbacks* of parenthood. I've never wanted kids for the very reasons put forth in this book, and I've never really seen... Read more
Published on 4 Dec 1999 by Jennifer Kerns

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