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The Mom Factor (Paperback)

by Dr. Henry Cloud (Author), Dr. John Townsend (Author)
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  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Zondervan (1 Oct 1998)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 0310225590
  • ISBN-13: 978-0310225591
  • Product Dimensions: 21.1 x 14 x 1.8 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.co.uk Sales Rank: 162,364 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)
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Cloud and Townsend identify six types of moms and show how they profoundly affect our lives.

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A 15-year-old South Carolina girl endured being chained to her mother 24 hours a day for a month as a court-ordered punishment for skipping school. Many adults would consider that cruel and unusual punishment. However, clinical psychologists Henry Cloud and John Townsend have found that pinpointing and resolving conflicts with one’s mother are crucial to a healthy, adult life. "Mothering is the most significant, demanding, and underpaid profession around," say Cloud and Townsend. "Yet, for many, mom also means conflicts or problems." In their new book, The Mom Factor: Dealing with the mother you had, didn’t have, or still contend with, Cloud and Townsend identify six "mom types," that explain "how the mothering process breaks down in different ways." The results of these unhealthy mothering styles are relational, functional, spiritual, and emotional problems in the adult. The "Phantom Mom"—an absent and detached mother—can result in the adult child never learning how to connect and be intimate with others. The adult child of a "China Doll Mom"—unable to deal with unpleasant or stressful life situations—avoids strong or negative emotions and withdraws from others when hurt or angry. In The Mom Factor, the authors take one chapter to "describe the problem and the needs that may not have been met by each of the ‘mom types.’" Then a following chapter provides "the steps to meeting needs that were unmet, and repairing whatever was broken." The authors conclude by focusing on "the unique issues that women and men have with mothers, including their own tasks as parents." The Mom Factor Workbook, available separately, asks frank, soul-searching questions to help readers determine what kind of mother they had, how their mother has shaped who they are today, and how to change into the person they want to be. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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24 of 25 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent starting point in achieveing self-awareness., 31 Aug 1999
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Written with much compassion. It is not a mom-bashing book. If a reader is looking for someone to blame for his/her life, this is not the book to read. Writers are insightful in how our moms' interactions with us have influenced us and shaped how we view ourselves and relate with others. The writers explain that our moms continue to influence us, well into our adulthood, whether or not we continue to have contact with them. The writers are careful to explain that our fears and hopes have their origins in our relationships with our moms. Most importantly, the writers give guidelines, based on practical and Biblical concepts, to healthier living despite extended dysfunctional relationships with our moms. The writers are realistic about the difficulties their readers may face with such challenge. They exhibit empathy in their certainty that self-awareness and healthy living could be ultimately achieved.
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14 of 18 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Start a healthy relationship with your mom by reading this!, 30 Aug 1999
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This book gave me the motivation and the ability to move past childhood problems and focus on the here and now. My mother and I have been able to slowly create a new friendship versus complaining about our previous relationship. I am truly appreciative to the authors.
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18 of 36 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars This book is FULL of Biblical references, 23 May 2000
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When you buy a book online, you can't flip through it. If you could flip through this book, however, you would immediately notice that God and/or a biblical quote is mentioned on just about every page. This would be a good book if it wasn't for all the religious connotations. I was looking for a book that would help me improve my relationship with my mother, not help me find religion. If you're extremely religious and have mother problems, this book's a must-read! If this is not the case, I recommend "Mothers Who Drive Their Daughters Crazy: Ten Types of 'Impossible' Moms and How to Deal With Them" by Susan and Edward M. Cohen -- great book, no religious overtones...
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