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After the Affair: How to Build Trust and Love Again (Relate Relationships) (Paperback)

by Julia Cole (Author), Relate (Author)
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  • Paperback: 192 pages
  • Publisher: Vermilion (4 Jan 2001)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 0091856728
  • ISBN-13: 978-0091856724
  • Product Dimensions: 19.4 x 12.6 x 2.2 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 2.8 out of 5 stars See all reviews (5 customer reviews)
  • Amazon.co.uk Sales Rank: 7,123 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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Finding out that your partner has had an affair feels like the end of the world. It is the ultimate betrayal and the most difficult thing to do is to trust again. This text takes a frank yet sensitive look at this topic. This book looks at why people have affairs and the effect they may have upon the person who has been betrayed. It attempts to help couples understand their feelings, overcome feelings of betrayal and help them decide the next step.

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45 of 48 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars When to Stop Talking about the Affair?, 7 Jan 2004
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After my husband finally admitted a 23 month affair which nevertheless left my devestated I brought this and two other books. I found it invaluable in the 5 days and nights we just talked and talked and talked - more than we had in the previous 10 years of our 18 year marriage/20 year relationship. However now 9 weeks on my husband doesn't want to discuss it anymore as he has buried it but things and situations still come into my mind that I must question - there is nothing in the book to talk about time for the betrayed needing to think aloud
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars Not comprehensive enough, 27 Jul 2007
This was the first book I bought and although I gained some perspective on what was happening to me and my relationship, it only addresses a few areas in any real depth. Having purchased a few, I can recommend Not Just Friends by Shirley P. Glass as that takes you and your partner through the complete journey of infidelity and beyond regardless of where the two of you end up long term.
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97 of 105 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars Title summarises the different of types of affairs., 23 Jan 2001
By A Customer
Having been involved in an affair, we took this book as a guide on 'how we can sort this out' and re-establish our relationship and trust.

The book focusses largely on the different types of affairs, and this would be useful to one partner if they are suspusious. However for us there was little in this section that helped us, as none of the types/examples related to our situation.

There is little advise on how to recover a relationship, ie how to really dig down and resolve why it happened, and how you can prevent it from happening again. We put the book down, having read it together and said - what else can we find to help us?

So I thinks its a useful summary of 'why affairs happen', but do not offer much help in rebuilding relationships.

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5.0 out of 5 stars A valuable means of help
Of all the challenges that can face a married couple, there are few things more difficult than rebuilding some semblance of trust after an act of infidelity has been committed... Read more
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2.0 out of 5 stars Wrong Title
The book should be titled. Read this to avoid an Affair!
For anybody whose experienced betrayl this is the wrong book to buy. Read more
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