Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex (Paperback)

He discusses every aspect of relationships--but most importantly he does this in practical ways. For example, he lists common statements that a person in a relationship say to their partner, what that person intends them to mean and what the person to whom it is directed actually hears, or thinks they mean. Gray goes on to suggest ways to say what you intended that are more appropriate for the Venusian or Martian audienc--he even compiles lists of translations of common male/female exchanges.

Each chapter takes situations from either the Venusian or Martian side, making the book easy to dip into, as well as enjoyable to read cover to cover. The case for each interplanetary race is put simply and in a very down-to-earth manner, and the book avoids trying to be too clever for its own good.

Some tips from the book: Venusians take note--Martians also have monthly cycles of emotions, and need to retreat into their "cave" every now and then, so Venusians needn't feel shut out when their favourite Martian retreats without a word. The Martians could help by telling the Venusians that while they are retreating right now, they will soon be back out and they will then discuss any concerns the Venusians have. Martians should be reassured that, although Venusians climb down into their well every now and then, it is not that the Martians have hurt them--they too are taking time out. Their favourite Venusian will be back soon, ready to re-embrace their closeness.

The personality of the author shines through, the tone of the book being helpful, friendly and non-judgmental, kind and well-meaning, although the self-help strategy of repeating and summarising points results in the book seeming somewhat directionless. It is nevertheless an essential title for the bookshelf of every self-respecting self-help addict, and is a good place to start for the curious. It does also have some real gems of wisdom and new strategies--all in all, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus is a star guide to understanding the constellations of coupledom. --Alison Jardine --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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He has a doctorate in psychology and, in addition to his private practice for relationship therapy, has

conducted seminars in major cities for twenty years. He lives in northern California, with his wife,

Bonnie, and their three children.

An internationally recognized expert in the fields of

communication and relationships, John Gray's

unique focus is assisting men and women in

understanding, respecting, and appreciating their

differences. For more than twenty years, he has

conducted public and private seminars to thousands

of participants. In his highly acclaimed books,

audiotapes and videotapes, as well as in his

enlightening lectures and stimulating weekend

seminars, Gray entertains and inspires audiences

with his practical insights and easy-to-use

communication techniques that can be immediately

applied to enrich relationships.

John Gray is a popular speaker on the national

lecture circuit and often appears on television and

radio programs to discuss his work. He has made

guest appearances on such shows as: Oprah, Good

Morning America, The Today Show, Live With Regis,

The View, Politically Incorrect, Larry King Live, The

Roseanne Show, CNN and Company, and many

others. He has been profiled in USA Today, Time

Magazine, TV Guide, People Magazine, New Age

Journal, Forbes, and numerous major newspapers

across the U.S

Dr. Gray's nationally syndicated column reaches 30

million readers in many newspapers.

Internationally, the column appears

in publications in England, Canada, Korea, Mexico

and Israel. The column reaches more than 10 million

readers weekly. Dr. Gray is also a columnist for

Redbook, Brides and Parents magazines.

Dr. Gray is a Certified Family Therapist, Consulting

Editor of The Family Journal, a member of the

Distinguished Advisory Board of the International

Association of Marriage and Family Counselors, a

Fellow and Diplomate of the American Board of

Medical Psychotherapists and

Psychodiagnosticians, and a member of the

American Counseling Association. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.