Abi Grant is an intelligent and witty writer who enables us to understand the emotional, physical and spiritual cost of speaking painful truths. From the personal to the political, Grant shares her own very painful journey and allows us a greater understanding of the effects of sexual attack and the court processes that follow. But this book is not a heavy tome, because Grant is a terrific author, with lightness of touch and pithy observations. This is essential reading for everyone involved in the treatment of those who have experienced sexual attack, and their friends and families.