I am a Latvian, close to Ms. Nesaules age, born in Latvia and I also spent years in Displaced Persons camps.
Unlike Ms. Nesaule, all my family and family friends shared memories good and bad of the war and of the refugee camps. We have several huge photo albums that include a lot of photos from the camps.
A book should be a memoir or fiction. If its a mix, then perhaps there needs to be some indicator as to what is memory and what is writers embellishment.
Ms. Nesaules opening statements such as "I have uncertainties about this story..." "...there is so much that I have forgotten or I never knew or understood." "No one in my family wants to talk about the war..." "And no matter how hard I try I cannot force myself to do research." "I can only tell what I remember. I have to speculate and guess, even to invent in order to give the story coherence and shape." "The matter of inventing requires a special note." Say what? This is a memior??
For someone who couldn't force herself to do research about DP camps, Ms. Nesaule seems to find no trouble in doing research about concentration camps. Reading and memorizing "The Diary Of Anne Frank", obsessing on photos of concentration camps (page 174) makes me question just what is really going on. The book of Ms. Nesaule brings up more questions than answers.
Yes, the refugee camps were like the war itself, horrific, dehumanizing and demoralizing, but they were NOT concentration camps. Our pain and horrors were real enough not to need any writers embellishments.
Page 179: "She tempers my fathers longing to return to Latvia by reminders of women having to do backbreaking work with out the benefit of running water, central heating and electrical appliances."
Page 184: "How can I say I dislike the Russians? My mother stills morns leaving 'dear mother Russia'..."
These statements show an almost deep contempt and ignorance about the true Latvia. Life was certainly hard on the small farms in Latvia as it was in 'dear mother Russia', but that was not the case for everyone.
Before World War II Latvia had one of the highest education rates, per capita, in the world. Riga was known as 'the Little Paris of the North' during Latvia's first independence. I for one find A Woman In Amber very offensive, full of misinformation ramdomly mixed with accounts resembling actual events.
For more information on Latvia, one might want to read the following: "A Guide to Latvia" by Inara Punga and William Hough; "The Northern Crusades" by Eric Christiansen; "The Latvians: A Short History" by Andrejs Plakans; and "The Testemony of Lives" by Vieda Skultans.