The subtitle of this book is How to Find and Keep the Perfect Partner. It is not strictly a 'self help' book in terms of telling you exactly how to find Mr/Ms Right - more a useful guide to why you may be repeating patterns in your relationships due to your background, conditioning, expectations and beliefs. From the wealth of research and fascinating statistics to the psychological explanations behind our patterns of behaviour you can learn alot about the mating game and your self in the process. This book is a compulsive read and the author takes you on a journey from meeting to matching to mating to how to make it last - along the way you will learn why some relationships are doomed from the start, why some may be hit or miss and why some are programmed to last. It will certainly make you think about the choices you make. A fascinating book for those looking and for those in relationships already - read it and discover yourself!