Just finished reading "White Lady". Enjoyed it so much that I am posting for the first time, a review on Amazon, my favorite bookstore and source of commentaries. Like readers on another review site, I found it hard to put the book down. No plot description from me, I shall try to describe what it is about.
White Lady is the most interesting description of interaction with aliens that I, a SciFi fan for over 40 years, have come across. Usually, aliens are described as shallow stereotypes, way advanced technologically, either loathsomely aggressive or unnaturally noble, and often cosmically incomprehensible. All alien individuals in a book normally have pretty much the same personality, barring differences in importance or status (nobleness or meanness).
Gwyneth Jones' aliens are alien in a totally new way. They are, of course, incomprehensible, but mostly because they are so different from us, rather than because they are so noble or so hostile. That incomprehensibility expresses itself in every interaction between humans and aliens - each interchange contains bits of understandings and bits of misunderstandings. Because, in some ways, they are also like us. The aliens, on Earth by accident, mostly want to make money. They are not above being deceitful in their interactions with us, neither are we with them. So they are understandable, in some ways. Are they interested in having a relationship with Earth in the "Take me to your leader!" sense. Some are, some are not. Certainly, "relationship" does not mean the same thing to them as it does to us. They are not especially interested either dominating us or teaching us. They have their own interests and they are not much in agreement with eachother. The depth of these shadings is what makes the book interesting.
Gender is a key theme of the book, but do the aliens have gender? Well yes, or maybe yes but not like us. Do they have sex? Well, not much and it sounds pretty different, but yes. With humans? Well that causes some confusion too. Especially to the extent that cross-species love is involved. By taking a bit of distance do we get something worth thinking about? Yes. And once in a while, a glimpse of seeing humans as aliens through alien eyes.
Is it challenging to read? Sometimes, but not in the "Oh, I'll try to again read this later sense". I always wanted to know what happens next, but I sometimes wished to think about what I had read. As one reviewer noted on another site, we are indeed left wanting more. But hey, I suppose that is pretty normal for the first book of a trilogy.