This is much more than just a book about protecting girls from growing too fast. It's a must-read for any mum or dad looking to raise happy and confident daughters.
I loved the fact that Tanith Carey offers not only a detailed analysis of the problem and its underlying casuses but also a practical guide that every parent can use on a day-to-day basis. The book is packed with tips on how to guide girls through the formative 'tween' years covering subjects from school politics, to friendships and self-understanding. Tanith has done an amazing job of collecting vast amounts of information from parenting specialsits, psychologists and researchers to help understand the problem and its impact on our daughters.
Some of the facts are shocking, for example the reasoning of young girls to undergo plastic surgery procedures. But it just underlies the severity of the problem and the fact that we as parents can not afford to ignore it.
I found the book empowering especially in the part where it shows what every parent can do to stop marketers, media and companies from sending the wrong messages to our children. Padded bras for seven year olds? Pole dancing kits for kids? Thanks, but no thanks!
Early sexualization is a hotly debated topic and one that the Government is actively involved in. However, for me the main message of the book is that it's up to us parents, to look after our girls and help them deal with the pressures of growing up too fast. And this book show us how.