I have a relative with a terminal illness, and I've been looking for books to help my children cope with the future.
This is one of the best I have found. It's honest and open about death and how people feel without being blunt or hurtful. The text and pictures are simple and clear. It's refreshing to read a book like this about human beings - not dinosaurs, foxes or badgers.
A boy is learning about death - he finds a dead butterfly on a windowsill, and his mother explains what has happened to it. Later, the boy has to come to terms with the death of his uncle: sad times, good memories, irrational fears and how the family cope in the short and longer term.
Another reviewer was less happy with this book because it had not faith or spiritual element. For me, this is one of this books great strengths. It does not deny or contradict anything religious, but would allow you to 'fill-in' if that was what you wanted. We're not a religious family, and neither is our ill relative, so I feel this book is very much in line with our position.
Suitable for boys and girls 3ish-8ish. As with all these books - read through first!