Weekend Love Coach: How to Get the Love You Want in 48 Hours [Paperback]

'I'm going to be recommending Weekend Love Coach because it makes tackling major relationship issues feel manageable...'

Lynda has a refreshingly real approach...she knows what she's talking about.

How to use the winning strategies of life coaching to transform the love and relationships in your life, in just 48 hours

'Weekend Love Coach' is written in the friendly and interactive style of 'Weekend Life Coach' and includes tips, strategies, exercises, questionnaires, relaxation techniques, with many celebrity case histories.

'Weekend Love Coach' shows you how to get smart about how relationships really work. Why do some people seem to have everything going for them; how can they be so positive and brimming with enthusiasm as well as have brilliant relationships? Did these people just get lucky in love as well as in everything else? These people are no different from you; they have no special tricks up their sleeve, they just decided that they deserved the very best that life and love could offer and they got clear about their goals and then they went for them!

'Weekend Love Coach' offers you the chance to get your love life in order once and for all! First allocate some time to spend alone relaxing with this book and focusing on you and your needs. Put yourself first, and have a 48-hour personal love-coaching session-for only £7.99!

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Lynda Field is a trained therapist and psychotherapist who specializes in personal and group development. She is the author of 12 titles, including the bestselling '60 Ways to Feel Amazing' and '60 Ways to Change Your Life'. In addition to giving seminars and workshops, she is Cosmopolitan's resident Life Coach and Cosmo Bride's agony aunt, and her work and articles feature in such national publications as the Express, Sun, Standard, Guardian, Glamour, She, Zest, New Woman, Top Sante, 19. Visit Lynda Field's popular on-line love-coaching service at www.lyndafield.com (20040624)

Preface
Turn Your Hopes into Reality

There are times when life surprises one, and anything may happen, even what one had hoped for.
ELLEN GLASGOW

The clients of life coaches are usually realistic people who know that they have the power to change the course of their lives and are ready to do whatever it takes to get the life they want. But over the years I have noticed that whenever we venture into discussing their love relationships, even the most level-headed of them can lose the plot and begin to drift into a haze of uncertainty and romantic fantasies.

Yes, life can certainly surprise us with amazing gifts, even with the thing that we most hoped for; but then again it might not! We cannot afford to wait for that enchanted evening when we will see a stranger across a crowded room and know that he is the one. And we don't have to leave it to fate or circumstance to deliver a fabulous relationship to our door, because we can take charge of getting the love we want and we can start right now.

If you feel that you need to get to grips with your love life, you are certainly not alone; more than 80 per cent of my clients have relationship issues to resolve. Whether they are struggling to enjoy their single status, looking to attract the right partner, attempting to rescue a failing relationship, recovering from a break-up, working out whether their partnership is worth saving or facing other dilemmas of the heart, I am always able to tell them that their issues can be resolved.

If you are being tested by love at the moment, you will undoubtedly be struggling to find the clarity and the self-confidence you need in order to regain control of your emotions and your life. When your love life is in turmoil you will naturally feel confused for a while, but there is no reason for you to stay this way. Once you decide that you have had enough of heartache and misery or that you are just fed up with the lack of love in your life, you are ready and able to move forward. After more than 20 years of working as a life coach, counsellor and relationship expert, I can tell you that I know, without a doubt, that you have all that it takes to rise to your love challenge and to overcome it: you really can learn to attract the love you deserve.

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A person who has been disappointed in love will often blame herself for her own 'inadequacies', which inevitably leads to a loss of confidence in her power to attract love, and so a vicious negative cycle begins. Or maybe she will blame her love interest, who turned out not to be the man she thought he was. Most of us will have experienced both these reactions and will know first-hand that neither of these two approaches turns us into a love goddess!

The answer is to take the winning strategies of life coaching and to apply them to your love issues - you just need love coaching! Weekend Love Coach shows you how to get smart about how relationships really work. Why do you think that some people seem to have everything going for them? How can they be so positive and brimming with enthusiasm as well as having brilliant relationships? Did these people just get lucky in love as well as in everything else? Let me tell you this: these people are no different from you; they have no special tricks up their sleeve, they just decided that they deserved the very best that life (and love) could offer and they got clear about their goals and then they went for them!

Weekend Love Coach offers you the chance to get your love life in order once and for all! Allocate some time to spend alone relaxing with this book and focusing on you and your needs. Put yourself first next weekend and have a 48-hour personal love coaching session. I know that you have what it takes to make a real go of this and come out brimming with confidence and the ability to go for exactly what you want in your relationships. You never need settle for anything less than the best; you deserve to be respected, supported, nurtured and loved - this is your goal!