I could not believe I had wasted money on buying this rubbish. The author has made a fortune ripping women off by writing books which he knows women will buy because they want to do the best they can for their relationships. Apart from the fact that his structure is based on a long worn-out theory about physiological type and its correlation with temperament, he still believes in the Garden of Eden and states that the reason women suffer pain in childbirth is that Eve tempted Adam with the apple from the tree of knowledge and God is still punishing Her for it. I didn't do it, honest! I wonder how he then explains the pain and sometimes death suffered by other animals through childbirth - hyenas, for example. I wonder what they did to deserve such punishment? He clearly has not read a single scientific book or journal since he was sixteen, and I think he must be about 92 now. He states firmly that ALL men are capable of being the leaders and guides of their families, and it is women's reponsibility to ensure that they can play this part. Right?! Would he include all the child abusers, women abusers, rapists, murderers and so on? Also, he states it as a fact that men find it much more difficult to love than women do; he believes it comes to them in later life and again it is women's duty to help them reach this state. Would you want to put your life, your children's lives, their future and their wellbeing completely in the hands of an unloving person, or would you rather take responsibility for them and ensure that you do not allow someone else to bully you into mishandling them, for selfish, unloving reasons? The book is a disgrace.