I never would have dreamed I would write a review for a book such as this. However, this book is worthy of a purchase and an honored place on your bookshelf.
As the title suggests, it deals with the physical and spiritual aspects of handballing,also known as fisting. The book details in as simple language as possible what happens to the body, and the mind when engaging in this sensual and erotic activity.
He relates the history of the act, along with the historic cocomittants(poppers,drug use etc) that have been used while doing this. He advises against their use, and suggests alternative means of increasing ectasy,and bonding that occurrs naturally as a result of handballing.
My own experience,of bottoming and topping,has been greatly helped by the use of this book. There is nothing to fear,as long as one takes his time, doesn't rush the experience,and listens to and cares deeply for the one he is playing with. Respect is the key word to avoiding injury and gaining maximum benefits from this practice.
Many men are left wanting for more these days after having sex. The nature of a man is to have sex with as many people as he is able or comfortable to have it with. This practice creates a quality of ectasy unknown by any other form of sensual art. It breaks down the remaining barriers between two guys and truly make them fully whole, a couple fully present in the moment,with no boundaries between them. The complete relaxation created lasts,sometimes for days.
Do yourself a favor and say yes.