When I was in counseling during this horrible time, I outlined this writing project for my counselor. He said he could see the faces of fifty people that needed to see this book, and encouraged me to write it. It is not for the patient, it is for the caregiver. People trapped in this situation need to know that they are not alone, and be helped to find new linkages to community to replace what they have lost. If you're at a loss how to help someone you know in this kind of situation, give them this book!