TO THE WEDDING is a remarkably beautiful novel that works through a series of fluid images and as the blind narrator says at the beginning, he (and the reader) has to determine how to fit a them all together. It's a book that cries out for several readings, as one reading will not do justice to the way these images are subtly linked.
It's a story of life's transience, of terrible things happening to innocent people There are two ways of responding to such injustices, the first being a futile religious practice, as exemplified by the narrator who sells "tomatas" at the beginning of the story to ward off evil happenings. The second is simply to realize that bad things happen to good people and to celebrate the present moment, the climax of this attitude being, of course, the wedding of two ordinary people.
The wedding guests become "a creature half mythical like a satyr with thirty heads. It only lives a day or two, and is reborn when there's something to be celebrated". This promise of happiness, and that's all it is, a "promise" is further intensified by the food (the sacrificial lamb) and by the bsnd which plays loud "to keep out the din of the world." The din, the discordant notes, the tragedy will come soon enough. But for now, we enjoy the beauty of the moment.