I think this is the best book of any that Beverly Lewis has written because it shows how important it is that people really take a long look at the things they share and respect before they get married. This book tackles some of the list that people must discuss: values, views on everything from what is acceptable behavior from their children to what religion their children will be taught.
Not because it is the most interesting, although it is a very interesting book. And I think that it is very realistic.
But the reason it should be required reading for all people thinking of getting married is because it shows what happens when the "newness" of married life wears off and what happens when children are born.
I am not talking about falling out of love, but when a couple becomes very comfortable with each other and they are actually themselves. Everyone is a product of his/her background.
And when people age this background always seems to come out in people.
For better or worse we all have a past and that past does help determine who we are. I can't be anymore specific about how these issues are handles in the book, because I don't want to spoil the book for others.
THEN the differences really matter. Everyone presents their best and agreeable side when dating. It is just the way it is, but this book shows the downfall of that very thing. And of not thinking through decisions. That is the reason I think it is Beverly Lewis' best work.